Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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wow caught me off guard.... i liked it!

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ok So some background, dont mind the spelling it 4:30 in the morning.

I run a hookah bar and i always have girls to flirt tease ans make fun of. But i got caught off guard tonight.

met her like a week ago, she came in to the hookah bar and flirted, and i teased the hell out of her. She liked it. So they left for the night, and the nice thing about the hookah bar(and also bad thing) They know where to find you if they want to flirt. so waited about 3 days and she texted me and asked if i was working. told her duh! they came in hella early, like why the hell would u be here right now early.

Her friend was drunk, and wanted to go to the titie bar, but she did not want to, but they ran off for an hour(time to flirt with other chicas) she text me and said she was headed back to see me. they show up and we talked off and on, had work to do. I told her i was ganna steal her tonight for a movie. she agreed, blew her friends off, and came back to my house.

Well luck of the whitish, my tv stopped work, and idea popped in my head, lets just use my laptop in my room...lol laided on my bed for 2 hours, watching a movie, and play fighted for almost all of it. well she kept the kino up, and kept pulling me close to her face, well the 20th time, i figured hmmm, this feels like right timing now.

went in for the kiss and she brushed it off and was like ha ha what a burn, SHE SAID THAT! AWESOME! lol well it got me off my guard. But she gave me a kiss of the cheek. I know she is interested, but i want some advice for next time i experiance this.Ha ah i laughed so hard to my self. but learning is my first priority on this..lol thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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oh and she is a handful with comebacks, but i can keep her at bay.
 

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ok also with this girl, i feel like i need to regain control, i told her tomarrow i was ganna go get pita pit and she is coming with, she said she wanted to go. My normal way of regaining control is to cancel the pita pit and make my self univalible tomarrow. usally always works , but any ideas?
 

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lambo_cst said:
ok also with this girl, i feel like i need to regain control, i told her tomarrow i was ganna go get pita pit and she is coming with, she said she wanted to go. My normal way of regaining control is to cancel the pita pit and make my self univalible tomarrow. usally always works , but any ideas?
Faking a cancellation? Are you sure you really want to live that fake life? Regaining control should be natural because your life is busy enough to where you don't always have time for a woman. Rebuild your life and then worry about women.
 

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WC2 said:
Faking a cancellation? Are you sure you really want to live that fake life? Regaining control should be natural because your life is busy enough to where you don't always have time for a woman. Rebuild your life and then worry about women.
No, i really am bizy, i have an army job from 6am to 4 pm then run the hookah bar from 7 to 2am. So im kinda just fitting her into my schld. thanks for the non helpful advice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonS said:
yeah, forget the pretending to be anything you're not cause the chicks **** tests will crack your lies like a coconut. Just have a busy life of work and hobbies and you'll have all the control you need. She is playing this game to keep you on your toes and give her a taste of power. Just live your life and flirt and date other women and she'll take notice and give in. Don't get oneitis.
See thats what i was thinking, thanks you, ha ha she seriously caught me off guard. Kinda a thing that does not happen to much. thanx
 
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