"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wow being called a player P*****ed me off

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Hey guys, every single one of you are awesome (no homo) anyways onto my situation currently.

A girl has constantly been calling me out saying Im a player, she says "I judge em how i see them" and saying that Im ****y. Sure I might be a little ****y but make it obvious that im using ****y funny humour at the same time. I guess she doesnt read the memos. Anyways I called her out on it and said if you assume Im a player one more time, or call me one, Im walking away from you, and you can come talk to me when you grow up. Anyways sure enough she said I was a player, I got up from the table at school and walked away. I wont inniate the convo until she grows up. Shes a 8 I already slept with her, but she got turned off by my "****iness"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jokerlsk

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You honestly shouldn't care. But if you just slept w/ her for a quick fvck i would take a moment and reflect on life. I don't really think it's kl to mess w/ a girls emotions like that. Do what you want though noone is stopping you. She calls it like she sees it because you gave her the "bang and boot"
 
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Youve tried to go "****y funny" but overshot with the ****iness and hit arrogant. As youve ****ed her already though I dont see the problem?
 
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Know she is lying because if you were really a player no girl would call you one.

So she is blowing smoke.
 
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Actually she would, to justify sleeping with you. She becomes a "players" victim - not a slut who sleeps around. Simple Anti-slut defense mechanism in play.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ya but shes the one that LJBF me? If I had it my way Id probably at least try and date her, but she pulled the friend card. Strange girl...
 
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