"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wouldn't Stay The Night

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So, this girl I'm seeing was at my house last night. She was in a wreck recently, and earlier yesterday, some pieces of her car fell off and slashed her tire and one of her headlights went out. She said she was afraid to drive her car and I told her that she could stay the night. She said she couldn't do that. I told her it was no big deal but she told me her mom doesn't let her do that. I know her family is religious, but this girl is almost twenty. Shouldn't she be able to make decisions like this on her own?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJF AGAIN!

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From my experience, what it looks like is that she just wasn't feeling you man OR...OR, if you had a great sexual chemistry going on, she could have been telling the truth.

What I would have did was just fvcked her and then told her to call her ride. Why did you want her spending the night anyway? How long have you know her? In the beginning, just fvck them man...it will save you a lot of money, time, and hardache...why can't guys just do that??
 
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There was no ride for her to call. She drove to my place. As for me wanting her to spend the night. Why not? She said she was afraid to drive her car. It sounded like she was trying to tell me something, so I thought I'd make a suggestion. It wasn't even my idea to hang out last night. She called ME.
 
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fertileTurtle

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You should have made up a good story so her parents wouldn't have found out the real reason she was over.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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She's working with a different set of values than your own, no big deal unless you make it one. Either accept it (maybe she'll change it someday) or leave it.
 
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