"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The feeling you have (non-desire) right after you bust a nut would last for weeks. I mean once you bust one ALL of your sexual desire goes right out the window and women are the furthest thing from our minds. Sometimes I think this is a good thing, that is, eliminating desire.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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(1) Get a hobby.
(2) Get a passion besides chubs.
(3) Go to a place where beautiful girls want you. This eliminates the lust factor.
(4) Deny yourself movies and television. It only makes you think that it is hard to get something decent looking. In fact, being from NJ makes you wanted by some of the most amazing looking girls on the earth. See, humans crave what they don't think they can get. As a little kid I craved a Nintendo. Finally, my dream was realized. It was nice once I had it, but I still remember the feeling of desire that I had BEFORE getting it more than the time I spent with it. Same goes with girls. Once you become the hunted (rather than the hunter) girls lose much of their mystique. Most Western guys who are stuck in the West put girls on a pedestal. Much like I once put a Nintendo game system on a pedestal.
 
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I have often thought after the sexual release that wow, all that buildup and its over that quick. It does kind of make you wonder, but it is natural.

As far as desire, my libido is really high, but it has scarily disappeared for a while before. It normally involves working tons of hours and getting very little sleep.

But even this week in which I've done just that, I still found great interest in fvcking my gf. In fact I just did, right before work. One great advantage of a live in LTR.
 
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