Hello fellas, I am confused with this and need help. I am in a relationship with this girl and things are going well for us so far. Her IL is high and constant txt and call all happening.
Yesterday morning she decided to drive some 3 hrs to a beach in VA to spend quiet time by herself. After visiting the beach and doing things around town she spent the night in a hotel. She was at the local club drinking (a couple of beers) and socializing with the locals. Throughout the journey she kept in constant contact with me, video chatting, sending me pictures etc.
I was originally OK with the trip, but as the night progressed I begun to feel uncomfortable about the whole thing and questioned her. I felt she put me in a situation where I was in constant wonder of her motives and what may happen.
She went crazy!! She said I should allow her to have her own time (which I have no problem with) and that I don't trust her and this is coming from my insecurities. She said she loves me and she would never do anything to hurt me and cause issues in the relationship. We ended up having a massive argument and her questioning our suitability for a relationship. Mind you this is a girl I am hopping to take it to the next level. We have not spoken since last night.
What would you say to that? How best to handle this situation? Am I in the wrong here?
I really appreciate your help.
Yesterday morning she decided to drive some 3 hrs to a beach in VA to spend quiet time by herself. After visiting the beach and doing things around town she spent the night in a hotel. She was at the local club drinking (a couple of beers) and socializing with the locals. Throughout the journey she kept in constant contact with me, video chatting, sending me pictures etc.
I was originally OK with the trip, but as the night progressed I begun to feel uncomfortable about the whole thing and questioned her. I felt she put me in a situation where I was in constant wonder of her motives and what may happen.
She went crazy!! She said I should allow her to have her own time (which I have no problem with) and that I don't trust her and this is coming from my insecurities. She said she loves me and she would never do anything to hurt me and cause issues in the relationship. We ended up having a massive argument and her questioning our suitability for a relationship. Mind you this is a girl I am hopping to take it to the next level. We have not spoken since last night.
What would you say to that? How best to handle this situation? Am I in the wrong here?
I really appreciate your help.