"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would You Try To Bang A Chick Taller Than You?

soulforge

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So i got this online chick on my WhatsApp who wants to meet for a date... And surprise surprise she seems okay about coming to my house first date, and watch a movie etc..

Us Djays know, this could lead to a possible bang!

However I have a dilemma.. On her profile you was down as being 5FT7... She later told me, that is incorrect..She is infact 5FT8 and with heels possibly she will be 5FT9

Even though I am one muscular Mofo... I am infact 5FT7

So my problem is, this fit looking chick is primed to come to my house, but I think it could go horribly wrong, with her being taller than me!

It could turn out to be an uncomfortable situation.. On the upside, I will be making zero effort.. She will be doing all the travelling and coming to my house...

So do I take the chance? Or just cancel the date, and save us both from wasting each others time? She is rather hot though.. Nice slim sexy body, long legs mmm
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Real heels would raise her height more than an inch, more like three or better… If she diminished that fact to you, then she likes what she sees in you and will probably be in flats for comfort on a home date. A small height difference is no reason to turn down a bang. They’re all the same height laying down…
 
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There’s no way she comes to your place to watch a movie in heels. Does she’s know you're 5’7?

I say go for the bang.
 

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So i got this online chick on my WhatsApp who wants to meet for a date... And surprise surprise she seems okay about coming to my house first date, and watch a movie etc..

Us Djays know, this could lead to a possible bang!

However I have a dilemma.. On her profile you was down as being 5FT7... She later told me, that is incorrect..She is infact 5FT8 and with heels possibly she will be 5FT9

Even though I am one muscular Mofo... I am infact 5FT7

So my problem is, this fit looking chick is primed to come to my house, but I think it could go horribly wrong, with her being taller than me!

It could turn out to be an uncomfortable situation.. On the upside, I will be making zero effort.. She will be doing all the travelling and coming to my house...

So do I take the chance? Or just cancel the date, and save us both from wasting each others time? She is rather hot though.. Nice slim sexy body, long legs mmm
getting deezed is the right move.

real talk, she ain't taller on her back or knees.

go get her bruv
 

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"Would You Try To Bang A Chick Taller Than You?"


try....try???...

If the situation called for it, I'd hit it like the world was ending tommorrow!!!:p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am 5"10 and I almost always prefer to bang girls taller than myself. I love tall model type girls. Not even once did a girl mention my height being lower than hers or anything like that.
So relax and have fun
 

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Real heels would raise her height more than an inch, more like three or better… If she diminished that fact to you, then she likes what she sees in you and will probably be in flats for comfort on a home date. A small height difference is no reason to turn down a bang. They’re all the same height laying down…
Yes brah ture words.. If she wears real heels, she could be round the 5ft9 or 5ft10 range...

But this is one sexy broad... Think I should take on Smashing her as a challenge!

I have infact smashed a much taller chick than me once before... She was fine with it.

If she decides she doesn't want to bang, then its no big deal.. I made zero effort to meet her.

She believes I am 5ft8 where as I am actually 5ft7

It's always a good idea to add a extra inch to your height on a online dating profile lol
 

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you're overthinking this, if she doesn't want to bang, there are others that want to.
 

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1st date coming over? ahh damn, its going down, she a hoe. Why cant all women be this easy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't even know why you are asking?

She knows how tall you are and she still wants to come visit. Duh
 

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and with heels possibly she will be 5FT9
"Why don't you take your shoes off babe, and feel comfortable."

(I'm the same height as you and have/had women taller than me. It's all down to your vibe, confidence and DGA mindset,==> It's work wonders.
 

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So i got this online chick on my WhatsApp who wants to meet for a date... And surprise surprise she seems okay about coming to my house first date, and watch a movie etc..

Us Djays know, this could lead to a possible bang!

However I have a dilemma.. On her profile you was down as being 5FT7... She later told me, that is incorrect..She is infact 5FT8 and with heels possibly she will be 5FT9

Even though I am one muscular Mofo... I am infact 5FT7

So my problem is, this fit looking chick is primed to come to my house, but I think it could go horribly wrong, with her being taller than me!

It could turn out to be an uncomfortable situation.. On the upside, I will be making zero effort.. She will be doing all the travelling and coming to my house...

So do I take the chance? Or just cancel the date, and save us both from wasting each others time? She is rather hot though.. Nice slim sexy body, long legs mmm
Would love to bang a girl 6ft or above without heels (I'm 6ft).
 

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So my problem is, this fit looking chick is primed to come to my house, but I think it could go horribly wrong, with her being taller than me!
I've fvcked women taller than me. They enjoyed bugging me about it, and I'd fire it right back with something like "Yeah, I'm dating a fvcking tree"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Since I'm 5' 5", the question is whether I would bang a woman taller than 5' 5", which is about median height. Whenever I can get my arm around a taller woman (presuming she'x sexy), I tend to get a very strong erection upon doing that - something that doesn't happen with shorter women.
 

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I generally date girls a foot shorter than me. They are more fun in bed. I guess I like feeling dominant.
 

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Men more often have complexes about their height than women care about it. Sure, some women won't go with men lower than themselves, but most seem to not give a sh!t. If you think it's a problem then it's a problem, self-fulfilling prophecy right there, but it will be entirely your fault for not scoring, not hers.

I'm 6'2" though, haven't even considered what you're asking because very few woman are my height or taller. In case there was a taller woman then I wouldn't sabotage myself, I wouldn't even care. I think the height complex is beyond stupid. Short guys don't miss out because of their height, they miss out because of their insecurity regarding their height.

I've seen plenty of short guys get lots of pvssy, but none of them gave a damn about their height.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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