"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Would you take someone else's girlfriend?

Would you "steal" a girl who is taken if you liked her?

  • Yes, I believe in a free market system.

    Votes: 34 59.6%
  • No, it's unethical and out of bounds.

    Votes: 23 40.4%

  • Total voters
    57

poohead

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women who 'flirt around' while in a relationship, looking for the guy while in the security of an established relationship - while their bf is unsuspecting - these women are cowards and lower than dirt. either have some balls and end it - or stay with your bf and work things out.

this type of woman is basically a cheater. when this happens to you you will know what i'm talking about. and you don't want to date one of these people, if a girl is willing to do this to her current guy, then she will do it to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MVPlaya

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sexy_kuta said:
its like a mutal respect man.. what if someone takes ur girl
Then you shouldn't have been with her in the first place.

And to the OP, I have. Many times.
 

OzyBoy

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No i wouldn't. If someone did that to me i would want to bash the crap out of them.
 

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Once again I post my infamous rules on the issue. I voted Yes (as in steal) as most of my rules allow it. I stick to these rules like a priest does a bible. They keep my conscience clean. As long as i stick to what i agree to im ok.

If a mate likes a girl but hes not made a move: Fair Game

If a mate is going out with a girl: No go area

If a mate is currently shagging her but not going out: No go area

If shes a mates ex: Ask mate. Depending on what he says is either no go or fair game.

If shes in a relationship but i dont know or really care about the guy: Fair Game

If shes married: Fair game but be careful

To be a mate in my world you have to be someone i talk to on a regular basis. Someone i trust and respect.
 

Jariel

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Yes, I've done it many times, although I don't see it as "taking" someone else's girlfriend as I've never really set out to break them up and steal her away. It's more a case of just being the better option for her and letting her see that the grass IS greener on the other side.

There are SOOO many women who are unsatisfied in their relationships, not attracted to their partners and just settling for someone who isn't right. Now if they meet someone they really like, who really likes them and who can make them happy, surely it's better to pursue them than to live a lie with someone they'll just grow to resent with time.

Imagine being with a girl who's not really attracted to you, who secretly fantasises about other men and fakes her affection and attraction to you, just out of loyalty!

At least by "taking" a girl away from her boyfriend you give him the option of meeting someone who genuinely likes him and free him from the lie that is his relationship.

That said, I won't allow a woman to cheat on her boyfriend with me. I've been in that position so many times, but always refuse. Cheating is low and can really fvck up a person's head, leave them with major trust issues, screw up all their future relationships and their attitudes towards the opposite sex, so for me it's all or nothing. If they're not willing to leave their boyfriends for me, then they don't get to be with me at all.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SynapsyS

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Voted No.

The girls that have boyfriends are nodes of contacts for me. Befriend them, and screw their hot friends instead.
 
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