"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Would you swipe right or left on your ex?

Would you swipe left or right on your ex?

  • Right

    Votes: 4 30.8%
  • Left

    Votes: 9 69.2%

  • Total voters
    13

El Payaso

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Be honest. Assuming you saw her on Tinder or Bumble or whatever. Would your swipe left or right?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jetleg

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Nah, **** her.

Her being on tinder is my approval for her being just a piece of sh1t.
 

Who Dares Win

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right to see if she matches me, she would probably do and we would insult each other
 

SgtSplacker

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Physically shes perfect for me so right swipe for sure. It's her personality that just blew for me.
 

Infern0

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Depends which ex, if it was a decent one:

Right, then i'd send "dtf?"

might get an easy one out of it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fzatf

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Probably not the healthiest of choices but I would get back together with my ex if she would have me. Swipe right.
 

Masculinity

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Be honest. Assuming you saw her on Tinder or Bumble or whatever. Would your swipe left or right?
One of my ex's was very attractive; we met when she was 18. Perky breasts, figure of a guitar and tight skin all around, about 140lbs, 5' 7". I used to see and feel the envy of guys staring at me.

Now, I was told she's about 180-220lbs and a friend showed me pictures of her. It's amazing how much obesity can deform a person. It was difficult to process how the young and hot babe I was seeing turned into an obese woman who's very upset at the world.

Definitely swipe left.
 
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