"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would you sleep with 18 year old girl?

way2smart

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Ok there's this hot 18 year old girl who is very interested in me.
I am 29 myself. Is there any potential issues if I f*uck her ?

By issues I mean, is it possible that the girls father will come to my house with a shotgun or something? lol.

Have you guys slept with 18 yo?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Risk?

You may catch oneitis from a girl who is a royal pain in the ass.

Screen her, to be sure she's not trash.

My advice.
 

way2smart

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Risk?

You may catch oneitis from a girl who is a royal pain in the ass.

Screen her, to be sure she's not trash.

My advice.
I will not catch oneitis for sure. I am way too experienced to catch that.
I don't care if she is trash or not since I only need her as a plate
 

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Ok there's this hot 18 year old girl who is very interested in me.
I am 29 myself. Is there any potential issues if I f*uck her ?

By issues I mean, is it possible that the girls father will come to my house with a shotgun or something? lol.

Have you guys slept with 18 yo?
Yes I do.

What's wrong with a 29 yr old sleeping with an 18 yr old?

It's only wrong when u r 29 and sleeping with a 39 yr old "motherly figure"....
 

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You’re letting social conditioning (Omg you’re some old creep preying on the naïveté of young girls) overbear what’s biologically natural (Fertile, hot, should impregnate) and what would’ve been, up until the last couple decades, the social norm.

Girls learn the game way faster than guys. Anyone who thinks an 18 y/o girl doesn’t know exactly what she’s doing in regards to sexual dynamics, hasn’t spent a lot of time with 18 y/o girls.

So that leaves us with emotional maturity. Why would you want to hookup with someone who’s so emotionally immature, you sick little perv. But IME a girl/woman’s emotional maturity has wayyy more to do with her upbringing than it has to do with life experience. I’ve met some really, really awesome girls in the 18-20 y/o range; I’ve also met 40 y/o women that I wouldn’t let house sit for a weekend. So that’s a judgement call, but even then, you have to look outside of social conditioning.

But what will people think? One, who gives a fvck & two, younger women will be cool with it, men will either look at your relationship with envy (if they don’t have similar options) or admiration (if they’re honest with themselves; girls your age will hate it & try to shame you, but what could their motivations possibly be, I wonder :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would sleep with an 18yo if I found one that didn't annoy me. Most do.
 

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I would sleep with an 18yo if I found one that didn't annoy me. Most do.
Yeah, they need to deal with their snoring problem. I can't sleep like that.:p
 

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I did bang an 18 year old, couple years ago I was about 26, I worked with her. I also banged my boss and a third girl from the same job. They all worked together, they all knew I banged my boss but nobody suspected the others.

Was a real thrill and I felt like a boss (still do) my friends from that job see me as a king.

Back to your question. I would do it now too if she was hot. I’ve changed my OLD settings now to 18-22 for that exact reason.
 

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You need "Game"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ok there's this hot 18 year old girl who is very interested in me.
I am 29 myself. Is there any potential issues if I f*uck her ?

By issues I mean, is it possible that the girls father will come to my house with a shotgun or something? lol.

Have you guys slept with 18 yo?
I banged 3 virgins in 2017. So far no problems and no regrets. I'm still seeing/plating two of them.

Go for it. 99% chance the girl's dad won't come looking for you or anything like that. Enjoy.
 

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You shouldn’t be scared of a girls dad anyway, you’re 29 years old, a man in your own right. Start acting like one.
 

Who Dares Win

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Been there, done that and it was great.

Probably one of the best flirt of my life, the passion and the freshness of a late teenage girl is outstanding.

Given the choice I would get a 18yrs old 7 than an 8 my own age.

You feel full of energy as if you were young yourself, the headache coming from her behaviour makes you feel alive unlike the headache coming from older women which just pisses you off.
 

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Dating a girl who just turned 19 right now. It's funny, she follows my lead in everything and even copies my texting style. As a result of my being in control, she has very few rules and boundaries. Be laidback and chill, enjoy the sex, and talk about TV shows. Pretty easy
 

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Ok there's this hot 18 year old girl who is very interested in me.
I am 29 myself. Is there any potential issues if I f*uck her ?

By issues I mean, is it possible that the girls father will come to my house with a shotgun or something? lol.

Have you guys slept with 18 yo?
It's on my bucket list to bang an 18 year old.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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