"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would You Say This?

Galactus

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That Sinn guy said if he was talking to a woman, he would say something like, "If there weren't all these people around, I'd bend you over that table and have my way with you right now."

He says this is a great line because it tells her she's safe and you're only playing because there are in fact people around, and at the same time she likes it because you're expressing sexual intent in a confident way.

It's pretty bold. I can't see myself saying this to a woman unless it was in the context of a conversation that was moving in that direction. I'm not sure a woman wouldn't find that offensive. Do you think it could backfire?

I kind of like this line: "Excuse me, I know this is going to sound crazy. I've come from the future to tell you that the only way to stop the robot holocaust is if we fvck as soon as possible." The line works really great if she sees you're actually being chased by a T-1000 at the time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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combustiont

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Totally dependent on the person. Some will get upset, some will eat that **** up and want to **** you in the bathroom.

Its about timing and gauging personality.
 

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Let me put it to you this way. If you're too afraid to SAY sexual things, then you're too afraid to DO sexual things.

A line like that is something you could use on someone you see around, but don't really socialize with. Someone like a waitress or bartender at a club. Like combustionist said, totally dependent on the person AND the situation.
 

Desert Fox

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at a guy at my academic job a year ago do something like this. basically a blatant come-on to a receptionist in a different department while we were leaving.

he no longer works here. got fired over sexual harassment. average looking dude, but he pushed his boundaries.

to me it sounds like a good way to get your ass slapped with a harassment lawsuit depending on where you're at.
 

Joe Stud

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You gotta know the chick (not thru work), and know she's got a sense of humor. I used that same exact line not long ago. Her reply: "facing up, or facing down?" LOL
She was a very cool chick!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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