Would you remain a Nice Guy if...

[Pook]

Be honest.

Let us say, in a strange alternate world, women would LOVE you if you were a Nice Guy. In this world, you could do all the things you wanted to do. You could be sappy. You could write her poetry and SHE WOULD LOVE IT. The more of a Nice Guy you were, the more women in general would love you.

And in this alternate world, the jerks and players would be the ones SNEERED at by the women. If you were a jerk in this world, no women would like you. If you were ****y, they would dismiss you immediately.

Would you remain a Nice Guy if you were in this alternate world?

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

I would!

Males adjust to females desire.

For example: Braids

In the late 80's the only person who had braids was Leroy from "FAME". Now, almost everyone has braids because "Women like it".

 

[Quick]

It's not a hard question for me. I'm going to remain a "nice guy" even in this world, where there are far less rewards for that type of behavior. I learned a lot from coming to this site, and I was able to choose the tips that would help me the most. None of those tips include changing my fundamental nature. I'm just no longer a pushover, i don't give girls credit they haven't earned, and I know what behaviors cause a loss of interest.

 

[myfriendblu]

hmmm...GREAT QUESTION....I wouldn't say i would be some softy, but i would probably alternate my behavior(that has already been slightly DJ alternated)

However Pook, what your failing to take in account, is how broad and general a term "Nice" is. If you mean being a dormat and doing whatever she said, NO. If you mean, say, spilling my guts a bit earlier and calling alot more and revealing feelings and going a bit AFC, then.....hmmmm....Maybe...Dunno, cause i have never really done that.

 

[Julian]

Your surroundings mold you. So yes, i probably would.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

yea I would, isn't the only reason we changed to less passive people was because it was geting us no-where? Isn't it evolution to go with whatever works after failure?

Yea, i;m in the Hall Of Fame...... what's that you say all f Pook's post don't end up in the HoF? D'oh!

 

[anakin]

No. Not necessarily.

There's more to life than just getting women. e.g. 1 - finding out who you are for instance rather than shaping yourself to become what others may want.

All you have to do, is desire to become better and strive for excellence from within...which will shape other things. Being "nice" is not in itself a crime per se ... it's about having self respect.

 

[marqZAL]

I think when you have a women who really desires you and treat you well and you desire her back, her ultimate reward is you being nice to her. When I say nice, you should treat her the way you want to be treated. If you want to be treated like the best, and she proven herself and treats you like a king...why not go that extra mile.

 

[DJLiquid]

I would say no...I would remain the man I am or trying to become...a Man's man...even if it meant being alone on a saturday night....eventually at least one woman would have to give in, no?

-DJLiquid

 

[Survivor]

Hmmm. Good question. If women were attracted to Nice Guys, the human race would be extinct from this world.

What strange, alternate world you've created, Pook.

I am Survivor. My choice is to survive, to adapt to my environment. If there was a world where Nice Guys were not designed by nature to be weeded out, but instead to thrive and reproduce, I'm not completely sure as to whether or not I'd want to live in that world. There would have to be other benefits.

If to reproduce meant to be a Nice Guy then yes, I'd be a Nice Guy. However, I can also reproduce in this world as a Masculine Man. If my only life goal was reproduction, I could thrive in both worlds.

Two worlds, but only one life, Pook. There's more to my life than just orgasm and procreation. Sex is irrelevant. Before I answer your poll, what is the quality of life in your alternate world?

Is there peace in your world? How does your world deal with racism? Do children go hungry in your world? Are people persecuted unjustly?

 

[tomyv]

I think I am a nice guy. But I respect myself, simple as that. I honestly believe my time is valuable. I play the game out of necessity, if, and that's a big if, I meet a girl that makes the cut, great.

I don't purposely walk all over women, it's just a fine line between walking on them and letting them walk all over you.

 

[Helter Skelter]

Being a nice guy.

Yeah, that's easy to do and if it gets you all the girls you want, then why be anything else.

 

[DJjazzyJeff]

depends

I would have to say it depends on how it affected the rest of my life and goals. If I would get a better job, be better able to better myself as a person, able to use niceness to get me hype for the gym....more than likely, but just for a girl....no.....you have to have some kind of edge for everything in life....and being nice just doesn't bring it...girl or no girl. OTH, if it brought all that with it, then yes I would be a nice guy

 

[spanky]

Yes, perhaps Niceguy is too broad becaude you can get all of the women in this world but the jerky corporate f*ckers will just run you into the ground are far as trying to succeed.

So like Jay-Z and R. Kelly, I will take the best of both worlds. I wouldn't get too many broads but I might just still climb the ladder of success escalator style in this bizarro universe.

 

[chlywly]

I can be a nice guy, doesn't mean I have to be an AFC

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

In this world I am a DJ and women love me, if it took being a nice guy then thats what I would adapt to. However I have to be border line jerk/playa to get tail in this world, I have no problem being this way.

M.A.C.

 

[Trapspringer]

Originally posted by Eyecandie4ya
I would!

Males adjust to females desire.

For example: Braids

In the late 80's the only person who had braids was Leroy from "FAME". Now, almost everyone has braids because "Women like it".

Well, Leroy and Rick James but I think those were the only two.

 

[Click Here]

I don't honestly think I'd change just to get women. Sure your saying "But Click! You changed to become a DJ and forgot your AFC ways!". This may be true but along the way I've realized it made my life better. Not just the ammt of women i get better but my life. No one walks on me and I'm happy like that.

In a world where nice guys got girls, I'd be a jerk and I'd probably be running the country.

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

I would not change who I am Jerk, Nice guy, or no.

Another's perception of me will never change my reality because living your life to cater to the fickle whims of a mob will almost infalably lead to self-loathing and failure. I'm the only one who has to live with me, so staying true to myself in my own better development is the only option, environment or no.

If you're not living according to your own standards, you're living a lie and then what the fvck are you doing?

-CyranoDeBergerac

 

[Drow]

Well interesting question..

If women suddenley started liking "Nice Guys" would I change back to a nice guy? I'd say NO, because being a nice feminine guy is against our nature. After losing my Nice Guy side, I don't see a turning back. After you reach a certain point, you don't ever want to go back.

If I were born into a world were nice guy win then it would certainly be yes, because that would obviously be what nature intended for us to be; nice.

A better question would be: would you sacrifice your happiness to be able to get all the women you wanted?