"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Would you rather be sexy or likable?

playa99

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This question is inherently flawed in the way its presented, as it leads a poster down a 'black & white' path of thought.

It's like the old jerk vs AFC debate, I'd choose neither.

There is a third route, the DJ route. ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Trunks

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Sexy, but imo being likable is the easiest of the two, so if you get sexy down, shouldn't be hard to be likable too.
 

Doctor Europeo

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Would you rather have strong sex appeal to HOT women, while being disliked by most men, fatties and women over 30?

Or would you rather be liked by most people in general, but most women friendzone you?

And why?

Just want to see how most of you guys think.
The one that gets me a high quality girl faster.
 
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