Would you prefer women you date to stay within their race?

[Bumsniff]

Women you personally choose to date. Would you prefer they stay and have stayed within their race as far as guys they've dated or you wouldn't care? Would you marry a woman who's dated outside of her race or would it affect your decision? Or even certain types of guys shes dated. Like only professionals, blue collar, thugs, nerds and so on.

 

[TDH]

It wouldn't matter to me at all what difference would it make if she dates or dated someone outside their race it would only mean their open minded

 

[Gro0ver]

Nope, seems absurd in this day and age. Mixing genes with someone of another race is supposed to be quite healthy for the gene pool anyway

 

[Uncharted]

I've dated women of all backgrounds, so I don't see this as a problem. If it's OK for me, it's OK for the women I'm (potentially) dating.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I would but not because I believe people of races different from mine are worse than those of mine but simply because I want my dates to be as strictly connected to my kind as possible, if I could get one which didnt date any leftist either that would be even better.

Open minded when it comes of dating is not the best thing I would like in a girl, the more "types" she likes the less she find those like me to be particularly interesting.

So no politically correct "doesnt matter" to me, Im fine with people different from me but I want those with who Im strictly connected to be as similar as possible to me, I would have no problem to know my sister dating a black man but I would avoid to get serious with a girl which had guys different than me in her past.

Needless to say that girls going after bad boys,artists, leftists and all those cathegories to which I dont belong would have lower priorities than those who dated guys like me.

I believe that women abilities to bond are not infinite and the more they make them wide, the weaker they are while the stricter they bond the more the bonding connection is strong.

 

[topshelf19]

Depends. You have to look into some background. Mixed race couples are prevalent now and pretty much universally accepted. No biggie. But, I remember in college, there were groups of rich white girls who had a twisted fascination with Athletes, black athletes especially. They never even saw a black dude in person growing up or just wanted to piss daddy off. Obviously questionable behavior. I'm a pretty big guy and covered in tattoos. I know there are chicks i booked that just wanted whatever attention that brought when we walked down the street. Hell, I had a black girlfriend in high school, mainly because I was one of about 20 whites in a graduating class of over three hundred. 16 white guys chasing 4 or 5 white girls is simple math. Anyway, it depends on the experience of the past relationship, whatever the color. My ex dated a basketball player in college. According to her he beat n raped her. I'll just say that history didn't help my situation a bit.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

I would but not because I believe people of races different from mine are worse than those of mine but simply because I want my dates to be as strictly connected to my kind as possible, if I could get one which didnt date any leftist either that would be even better.

Open minded when it comes of dating is not the best thing I would like in a girl, the more "types" she likes the less she find those like me to be particularly interesting.

So no politically correct "doesnt matter" to me, Im fine with people different from me but I want those with who Im strictly connected to be as similar as possible to me, I would have no problem to know my sister dating a black man but I would avoid to get serious with a girl which had guys different than me in her past.

Needless to say that girls going after bad boys,artists, leftists and all those cathegories to which I dont belong would have lower priorities than those who dated guys like me.

I believe that women abilities to bond are not infinite and the more they make them wide, the weaker they are while the stricter they bond the more the bonding connection is strong.

Translation: I cannot stomach the tought of the woman I am dating, much less the one I marry, having dated a black guy!

 

[topshelf19]

Adding to the background thing. ... If your the first person of your race the girl has ever been with, it might be a consideration. I dated a chick who constantly said she couldn't believe how attracted she was to a guy like me. Eventually, she told me her ex husband was black and I was the first white guy she'd been with. I'd say if a girl over 27 or so has had a specific pattern in mates and your a total departure from that norm, there's reason for questioning.

 

[Eph]

Translation: I cannot stomach the tought of the woman I am dating, much less the one I marry, having dated a black guy!

Funniest thing I've heard all day :crackup:

 

[Robert28]

I'll tell you what bothers me more then anything. When I see a girl who I think to myself "d@mn she's cute, I'd date her" and then I see who she's dating and all of a sudden she ain't so attractive to me anymore. I mean you'll see the cutest girl and expect her to be with some good looking dude (no homo) but nope, she's with the exact fvcking opposite of what you'd picture her dating. at least around where I live. now, I know I'm no prize when it comes to looks BUT I know I'm a solid 7 and I know I look better then these guys, yet I get turned down in favor for them. According to these unspoken laws I'm seeing, my standards for women must be WAY to low and I should be aiming for higher then I usually go for.haha

 

[VladPatton]

Not my problem who she dated before me, nor do I want to know.

Unless, of course, a low rider pulls up blastin rap and 4 guys come out with gold plated .45's lookin for her.

 

[Vidrio]

Why would you even care? As long as she doesn't have an STD I don't give a damn who she's fvcked.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I look at things like this: If I can't picture myself hanging out with her friends and or family at a function/party/BBQ etc. I'm not bothering with the chick.

 

[3countriesPlan]

I care. I need to add that to my list in the Don Juan tips section. I live in Asia so I tend to mainly just meet up with Asian girls and white expat freakettes. Some chicks are English vampires and are only with you cause you speak English and are different (not cause your humor or looks or skills in bed etc) -- it is what it is no hate there. But the point is, you need to be sure your team girl is with you cause she likes you not cause you possess blond hair , speak English, or live up to her expectation of what a loud Amerikkan should be like.

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

I care when it comes to those "conservative" self hating black chicks. Since I live in Alabama the black girls who aren't "hood rats" expect you to be Kobe Bryant or they give you a hard time. They do not like those "hard gangsta niggas" they say, but a white dude who is a ****ing bum gets a pass. When they see me those self hating *****es try to talk to me, but if I see her exes on her FB are some dirty south rednecks then I PASS on that girl.

One girl had a FB status that said "African American roommates? I'm not racist, but I don't like living with my own kind". And already started some **** High School about making fun of a Mexican girl's accent. I deleted that ***** FB and number.

 

[sageproduct]

I'm asian and few things piss me off more than seeing groups of asians traveling in packs and only associating with each other

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I'll tell you what bothers me more then anything. When I see a girl who I think to myself "d@mn she's cute, I'd date her" and then I see who she's dating and all of a sudden she ain't so attractive to me anymore. I mean you'll see the cutest girl and expect her to be with some good looking dude (no homo) but nope, she's with the exact fvcking opposite of what you'd picture her dating. at least around where I live. now, I know I'm no prize when it comes to looks BUT I know I'm a solid 7 and I know I look better then these guys, yet I get turned down in favor for them. According to these unspoken laws I'm seeing, my standards for women must be WAY to low and I should be aiming for higher then I usually go for.haha

Agree 110%. I personally know and work with chicks a few who per other dudes I work with have seen their boyfriends...and it's not the "looks matter" either. Chicks who date tatted up straight dirtbombs. And these chicks are pretty cute too. Which is why in my slvt-o-meter thread..Chicks who have tattoos are part of the visual signs (no matter how "nice" they are or seem) are most likely when added up with other signs as slvt.

If I see a chick has dated a lowlife. I'm not that dude to be the "better" man even IF she's "nice". I see the concious choice she made and immediately think: Fvck that noise.

There are a lot of chicks out there who you'd never guess if you saw them have and or are dating dudes who look like tatted up tweakers.

They can keep that "cool" and "edgy" crap with the rest of the trash.

Now I'm not talking about regular dudes with a few tats either. I'm talking about dudes like you'd see looking like hillbilly Kid Rock trash. Funny thing is these same chicks I always catch looking at me and smiling. I keep it cordial and BS laugh etc. with them but f that. I wouldn't lower myself to date chicks who date lowlives. And it's not just "me" who's said that. I know a few dudes who've straight up said to me. "You see the dude that X is dating?" And every one of them is turned off. It's a sign if any of them did go with that chick they'd just pump and dump them.

People will judge. And certain dudes won't waste their time with a chick who's standards are in the trailer park. They can claim it was a "mistake". Sorry to hear that. But I'm not making one toots.

 

[topshelf19]

I had no idea heavily tattooed was a race. ..haha I might be eligible for a tax break. NN and others, I know your using generalities to prove a point and I'm with you on the kid rock lil Wayne trash factor. As I said, I'm covered in ink. I'm also often at Ruths Chris covered in a Ben Sherman suit. First impressions, as we all know can be ****ed up, even though I think most of us can use the eyeball test effectively. There Are bars In So Cal where the hotties are dressed up like its prom and the dudes are in tees and baseball hats, it's an awesome dynamic based on local culture. Seeing a cutie walk through the door with a sewer rat or a troll always sends me sideways too though. For the record, I will never date a chick with tats. Never!

 

[Who Dares Win]

Translation: I cannot stomach the tought of the woman I am dating, much less the one I marry, having dated a black guy!

Still sounds a lot like you're saying a girl who chooses to date outside your race (presumably white) is dating "inferior" stock. How does a girl dating a black, Chinese or Indian man have any bearing on her standards?

If you are sensitive its your problem guys, if I were black I would rather have girls dating black as if I were asian I would like my girls to date asians.

Not that I have to justify what I think to anyone, just saying that I dont buy all this diversity bvllsh1t and that the more various the better, call me bigot or whatever name you want if you feel the need but I dont want the woman in which I have to invest my life to have any factor which could compromise my quality of life, my sister can date whoever she wants any race or culture or religion, my wife has to date people as similar as possible to me, better yet only me.

Anyway you should realize that when someone point the concept of "diversity" he doesnt necessarily mean "inferiority", Im not telling to you guys but to the vast herd of leftists which keeps repeating us that apples and peers are the same thing.

 

[SgtSplacker]

This a weird one because when considering a person dating someone from another race you can be pretty sure that they are an open minded tolerant individual. But if the disparity is too great you can also assume a person with poor values/esteem or whatever.