"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would you please explain me the dirty pleasure of travelling for women

Who Dares Win

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Im not referring about those middle aged white women who just stopped playing in god mode so they do some sexual tourism in north africa or the caribbean, Im talking about 18-30 aged girls who have their eyes light-up anytime a chance to travel present itself.

A week-end in Paris seems like the end goal for so many girls or a visit to Rome as much as a vacation to Greece etc, ok sure travel may be interesting but as long as its done for a purpose, what the hell they find it so great in having a french cofee in a french bar only to leave few days later.

They accomplished nothing except blowing money and having pictures to impress their friends, do they really think they are better people now?

It makes much more sense those european middle aged delusional women who thinks that only third worlders are sensitive enough to love them now and travel to get some attention (even before than the c0ck).

It seems like its an end goal for most of chicks, and I dont believe its because of guys since they play dating god mode everywhere nowaday.
And dont forget the goddamn pictures of them wearing some ridicule local clothes and smiling at the camera, not sure if looking for sympathy,envy or what.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Part is ego/bragging rights. "I was at this cafe in PARIS." I'm a classy cultured chick lol.

Part is for pictures to post online much like AW club pictures.

Plus, never discount the possibility that it IS secretly a form of sex travel.

Women (young and old) LOVE vacation/holiday sex. There is nothing more naughty than a secret hookup with a guy that lives far away. Bonus points for an accent.

If it weren't for vacations, my 8 count would be at 2.

Most women won't come out and SAY they are going on vacation to get laid.

I overheard a bartender chick say this to another customer last week:

"I'm going to Atlanta next weekend with a few girlfriends. Maybe I'll meet a nice southern gentleman."

Mike32ct's Translation...

"If I can get away from my cawkblocking friends, I'm gonna duscreetly ride some southern sausage."
 

SamTheHobit

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Hahaha noticed this with girls my age in the past few month.

Went out with a girl a few weeks back and I asked her what she wanted to do for a living, and not to my surprise she wants a job that involes "travelling" I've also met a ton of girl my age that want to be air hostesses.

Hell I asked my ex girlfriend if she would ever settle down with me and she said no because she wants to travel the world. Lololol

I think alot of these girls are living in a dream world. I mean travelling is crazy expensive.

Maybe they are scared of NOT "experiencing life".. I bet in there warped little minds, fvcking a plethora of different guys is "experiencing life".

Hahaha I'm patiently waiting for reality to hit them square in the face.

Also Mike pretty much hit the nail on the head^^^
 
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PapiChulo

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I don't know if I can blame them. I also find that many learn languages for that purpose and actually do end up overseas. I know of at least one woman who hooked up with a chilean dude and ended up spending a whole summer with that guy. And to add, she is nothing special at all. Living overseas or being some of sorta artist abroad is practically every young woman's pornographic fantasy. In most cases it is realized through a foreign guy. This is also one more reason for even an average chick not to screw you, because they can get pretty much any d!ck on a spring break and not feel guilty about it. The foreign guys look at then as some form of the exotic and are equally fed up with their own local women.
 

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It's so they can appear "interesting" (if that's possible, lol). It's all about what other people think about them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You don't find travel interesting? Hell, I got excited by the chance to wander the streets of fvcking Philadelphia for a couple of days last year, I'd love to go sit at a cafe in Paris. And I don't even like cafes :eek:
 
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