"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Would you mind if anyone from SS dated any of your sisters/ daughters/ relatives?

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"Would you mind if anyone from SS dated any of your sisters/ daughters/ relatives? Or would you keep them far, far away!"

Giving the wrong advice at times on SS may actually be a service to humanity. After all, who in the hell would want some of these posters near a good chick. Giving the wrong advice may save a chick from a real “winner”.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Naughty Ninja said:
"Would you mind if anyone from SS dated any of your sisters/ daughters/ relatives? Or would you keep them far, far away!"

Giving the wrong advice at times on SS may actually be a service to humanity. After all, who in the hell would want some of these posters near a good chick. Giving the wrong advice may save a chick from a real “winner”.
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I'd only allow concerened laurie!
 
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j0504s said:
I'd only allow concerened laurie!
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:crackup: Thanks for the laugh, I almost forgot about that ridiculous thread :D
 
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I don’t know it's hard to say.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You guys can all have my sister. She has herpes.
 
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Being a member of SS wouldn't give any dude a "free pass". Any guy my daughter is going to want to date must be introduced to me, and will be evaluated accordingly. Being a DJ myself, I plan to teach my daughter self-respect. She'll have confidence in herself, and deserve the best, but still be traditional, and hopefully steer clear from any losers.

SS is home to some of the best, but also some of the worst.

-Scars
 
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Scars said:
Being a member of SS wouldn't give any dude a "free pass". Any guy my daughter is going to want to date must be introduced to me, and will be evaluated accordingly. Being a DJ myself, I plan to teach my daughter self-respect. She'll have confidence in herself, and deserve the best, but still be traditional, and hopefully steer clear from any losers.

SS is home to some of the best, but also some of the worst.

-Scars
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Scars said:
Being a member of SS wouldn't give any dude a "free pass". Any guy my daughter is going to want to date must be introduced to me, and will be evaluated accordingly. Being a DJ myself, I plan to teach my daughter self-respect. She'll have confidence in herself, and deserve the best, but still be traditional, and hopefully steer clear from any losers.

SS is home to some of the best, but also some of the worst.

-Scars
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I would have to agree also. Being on this site wouldn't be an automatic disqualifier, but it would raise my eyebrow a bit and make me want to meet him and check him out thoroughly before allowing my daughter to date him.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No daughters or sisters, and my female relatives are in another country / continent. HA HA... Trick's on you. :kick:
 
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