Would you mind dating or having a girlfriend who is a pornstar?

[addicted2money]

I hope I'm not starting too many threads at the same time (just asked a question about a first date a couple minutes ago), but it's actually related. The cute girl I met didn't tell me what she does but she said she does something "bad" that she's not too proud of to make money for school/bills. I didn't ask what but I might ask her later.

Anyways me and some guys were talking about this yesterday. I don't know since technically porn is about performing and not real sex. But then again if she was a hooker I would probably mind, but that's not real sex either right? Because she is getting paid.

But then I thought about what one guy said about how when we go out on dates and buy dinner for girls we're almost doing the same thing because we do it to get laid. I don't do that, I mean not directly.

Anyway this girl is really cute and I think she likes me, but what's really strange is she looks a lot like a pornstar. Not a famous one, but one that's been in a couple movies, and you may have seen her. And what's crazy is I looked up the pornstar's name online for a couple hours and found out she actually grew up in my town!! But I think it could be her sister, or maybe they're totally unrelated. I watch too much porn and I think I see look-alikes all the time anyway. But still, I just want to know if she's worth the trouble or if I should stay away, because she did admit to doing something "bad" already.

 

[bigjohnson]

Is a porn star or was a porn star? If she's still working probably not. I dated a glass booth girl for a while but that's sort of a different thing.

 

[Lexington]

Like anything else, it would depend on the girl. Contrary to what a lot of people may think, to porn stars, the things they do on set isn't really sex....it's just acting/work.

Sure she's been boned by a lot of dudes, but if she keeps herself healthy, is attractive, has a good personality and would be faithful, I'd be open to giving it a shot. Hey, she may have learned a few things on the job :yes:

 

[SmoothTalker]

No.. I might consider a former porn star because indeed she would have a nice body and a few tricks up her sleeve (as long as we're sure she didnt' catch anything before), but if she's currently active, definitely no, except maybe as an FB. Whether it means anything to her or not, she's still getting boned by other guys, and they usually don't even use condoms in porn.

Personally I'd prefer my woman to be wet from excitement, not from the huge load some hung like a horse guy dumped in her a few hours ago.

 

[DJDamage]

Contrary to what a lot of people may think, to porn stars, the things they do on set isn't really sex....it's just acting/work.

So by that logic if I kill a man on camera, that does not make me a killer?! can I claim I was just acting??

Sure she's been boned by a lot of dudes, but if she keeps herself healthy, is attractive, has a good personality and would be faithful, I'd be open to giving it a shot. Hey, she may have learned a few things on the job :yes:

The fact that she has boned alot of guys does not make her healthy, on the contrary a double anal penetration as your speciality and you bound to catch something. Also majority of female porn stars are on drugs or drunk out of their minds.

Define faithful to a porn star??!! see its already messed up.

Female porn stars are fvcked up indvidual's on drugs. Go read up on the biography of Jenna Jameson just to get a glimpse of her world. Its basically a legalized version of prostitution, the only difference is that the government is getting its money that's why its allowed.

 

[f283000]

DJDamage just owned somebody pretty bad ouch!

 

[OTB]

I dated a glass booth girl for a while but that's sort of a different thing.

What the hell's a glass booth girl?

Please enlighten a fellow brother

 

[OTB]

Define faithful to a porn star??!! see its already messed up.

Its basically a legalized version of prostitution, the only difference is that the government is getting its money that's why its allowed.

Wow.... just wow.....

DJDamage, Are you insinuating that the pornography industry be immedietly outlawed?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Like anything else, it would depend on the girl. Contrary to what a lot of people may think, to porn stars, the things they do on set isn't really sex....it's just acting/work.

Sure she's been boned by a lot of dudes, but if she keeps herself healthy, is attractive, has a good personality and would be faithful, I'd be open to giving it a shot. Hey, she may have learned a few things on the job :yes:

Its just acting? The b!tch is getting focced in the arse, sucking d!ck, swallowing man juice and getting her tang slammed, yet its not sex, just acting?? Im not down with boning girls whos number is around 150.

 

[DJDamage]

Wow.... just wow.....

DJDamage, Are you insinuating that the pornography industry be immedietly outlawed?

No.

I am just calling porn out to what it really is "A legalized form of prostitution".

As a matter of fact I am all for the legalization of prostitution and having a red light district like they have in Holland. More money will be coming in to the economy, more tourism, less crime, and you will have alot of happy men walking around.

 

[Jitterbug]

Its just acting? The b!tch is getting focced in the arse, sucking d!ck, swallowing man juice and getting her tang slammed, yet its not sex, just acting?? Im not down with boning girls whos number is around 150.

It's the same kind of accounting that girls use to count just long term BFs as guys they've slept with.

Hang on, I think I get it now. It's not "making love" and therefore doesn't count.

 

[SmoothTalker]

Hmm.. can we make some serious $$ by using this as a loophole? Open up a *****house right in the open, but have cameras in every room. The customer then immediately gets the tape and can keep or destroy it as they please.

He's not paying for sex, he's a porn producer that happens to act in his own movies, and is paying the girl for her 'acting'.

 

[bigjohnson]

What the hell's a glass booth girl?

Please enlighten a fellow brother

I'm not sure what the technical term is, but essentially (as she explained it) she would do whatever the paying customer asked but they were separated by a glass window in a private room, or 2 rooms with a glass wall, or however you want to think of it.

 

[The Bat]

But then I thought about what one guy said about how when we go out on dates and buy dinner for girls we're almost doing the same thing because we do it to get laid. I don't do that, I mean not directly.

BINGO! :rockon:

Rollo has an infamous thread about "You will always pay for sex" on here. Do a quick search for Rollo Tomassi and look up that thread and read it. EDIT: Here, I found it for you...make sure to read it thoroughly because people make some very good points in it....http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=150044

And yes, you do pay for sex directly. It's just covered up as "buying dinner and being a gentleman". If she doesn't put out that night, then you show her the door right? Why? Because you just spent all this money on her and you didn't get any.

To get around this, I generally avoid dinner dates unless I've been seeing the girl for 2+ months and I have high interest in her.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I could not date a porn-star and live under this roof, whoever, the concept is intriguing.

However I will say this - there is this good DVD movie out called "Girl next door" that I watched and if I were you, I'd go to the nearest video store or library and get a copy and watch it.

The movie "Girl next door" is about the same thing you are talking about. A guy who is dating a porn-star, and it's a fun teen movie that really goes deep into that theme. You have other movies that deal along the lines with similar themes. In the movie 'Rent' one of the actors is dating a stripper.

 

[ready123]

I would do it for the experience, same with dating a stripper

I don't know how long it would last but it would be interesting

 

[oakraiderz2]

BINGO! :rockon:

Rollo has an infamous thread about "You will always pay for sex" on here. Do a quick search for Rollo Tomassi and look up that thread and read it. EDIT: Here, I found it for you...make sure to read it thoroughly because people make some very good points in it....http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=150044

And yes, you do pay for sex directly. It's just covered up as "buying dinner and being a gentleman".

So what if the girl is the one paying for everything and showering me in gifts? Does that make me a hor? Does it mean shes paying for sex? If i hold the door for a girl and behave as a gentlemen in a neutral environment with no goal of tapping ass, am i paying for sex in some way? Ive read his post and to an extent i agree. But if we're going to look at the world through glasses of that shade we could place labels on pretty much everything and categorize it in a less than apeasing manner.

 

[theunflushables]

Nah, I wouldn't date a stripper. After hours of fvcking to make money, do you think she'll want to come home to fvck you? It's like doing work for free.

However I dated a girl who later become a stripper. I don't know if that really counts as dating a stripper though.

 

[C-quenced]

I wouldn't mind a porn star or a stripper as long as I'm getting some and wouldn't contract any std's. I think most of the guys who do mind having such women around are those looking for a wife or a girlfriend.

 

[MacAvoy]

I would do it for the experience, same with dating a stripper

I don't know how long it would last but it would be interesting

I'm with you, I'd definately do it. However I wouldn't recommend it for 99% of the chumps on this forum, they don't know how to separate their emotions from pvssy. I almost dated a stripper, I fvcked her, had her over a couple of times but I was 18 and legal drinking age was 19, so I was scared of getting carded at her next location so I couldn't take it beyond that, she really liked me though.