Solomon
Master Don Juan
She told you upfront what she wanted, no strings attach, yes or no? I always thought I would say no....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Would you mess with a married women?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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THe question should be- -
"would you be honest about having messed with a married woman..?"
"would you be honest about having messed with a married woman..?"
Solomon
Master Don Juan
^^you still aint answer the question DonG
so have you?
so have you?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
tony-montana
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me too, i don't recommend it either. she was 22 i was 18. she had a kid and a husband. i heard he was after me for a while. lucky for me he never found me. was my first time too btw.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
what happend warrior?
ROFL @ tony, ayo real talk, if you aren't careful you can end up with more then just slashed tires
ROFL @ tony, ayo real talk, if you aren't careful you can end up with more then just slashed tires
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
When I first started out, it would have done it. Then when you get into a LTR on top of learning people will lie about how bad they have it in general and you learn it's not worth it or an honorable thing to do. That lady may fall in love with you and now what was a temporary thing is now her making you into the next guy she wants to spend her life with despite you having other plans. Then you have to deal with the man who may try to hunt you down for what you did. I say leave her to her own mess instead of contributing to it.
nightcrawler
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I would.
She's gonna cheat regardless, might as well be with you.
She's gonna cheat regardless, might as well be with you.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
Warrior74 said:
DIDDO..
not to justify my actions or even make excuses her husband and her were on the verge of getting a divorce and lived in separate states while he was in the navy...
however..
i strongly would suggest to stay away from married women. there are to many options available to you. i had to learn from experience.
they ended up staying together, and she told him about me. i havent seen either of them, but this is not the "norm" in these types of situations. normally the husband IS around, and with time, everything comes to light.
STAY AWAY
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I didn't know she was married. Apparently she was house sitting for her friend. She told me it was her house. We stayed there having sex all weekend, on sunday night her husband showed up with a gun looking to kill me. I snuck out the back and to my car, he had no idea what I looked like so i walked calmly right past him and drove off.Solomon said:
A few months later i went home with a random from the club. I woke up to her 6'3 football player boyfriend trying to get in her bedroom. Ended up jumping off the second story balcony, twisting my ankle. Lost my shirt and shoes, but at least my wallet & keys where in my jeans.
Igetit!
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Warrior74 said:
WOW!!! Are you serious? This seems like something you would see on TV or in some movie or something. Man,that's crazy.
Would I mess with a married woman? No. It's just that simple for me.
I don't care how "hot" she is,how sexy,beautiful,attractive,how much she says she wants me,I wouldn't care if her and I were the only people who knew about it and no one else would ever find out,I still wouldn't do it.
I just wouldn't do it period,but this situation that Warrior74 is just an added incentive. There are thousand of other women out there. Why would anyone want to mess around with another man's wife,and risk all of this stuff that Warrior74 just described? He said that he twisted his ankle. Is a twisted ankle worth the sex? What if he had broken his leg or had gotten shot? To all the guys who said that they would do it,would these things be worth it?
Please,NO WOMAN is worth all that drama.
MacAvoy
Banned
I would but I wouldn't recommend it. Mostly because most people don't have the skills to draw a line, and not raise suspicion. I've banged my boss's women, you name it, I've done it. I've never had an akward situation or had to jump out a window.
MoveYourAss...
Senior Don Juan
:crackup: great stuff !!! (for afterwards)Warrior74 said:
Been there, too. No real problems arised, just annoying situation with AFC-husband. But i also don't recommend it, although she was damn hot.
I can confirm that you can simply not always know, I was lied to about that, too.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
More Cowbell Please
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I have. That sh*t comes back to haunt you if the husband finds out. If the marriage is already on the rocks, it probably will not matter much if you don't get caught. You might want to try it just once just to get the thrill out of the way, but it's not something I would really try to do.
That being said, there are a handful of married women I would bang if I had the chance. One I already did without knowing she was married to my neighbor's brother. She's been over this week and I saw her walking in front of my house. I kept inside, because I don't want to start any needless drama. I think she was looking for me, and if I had the chance I'd f*ck her again. She's looking good.
That being said, there are a handful of married women I would bang if I had the chance. One I already did without knowing she was married to my neighbor's brother. She's been over this week and I saw her walking in front of my house. I kept inside, because I don't want to start any needless drama. I think she was looking for me, and if I had the chance I'd f*ck her again. She's looking good.
Barefoot Boy
Don Juan
Growing up, will not miss out by not being a human male being again
While reading an essay on banging married women I can across its advice on what to do three simple words: be positive, attentive, and upbeat.
So I decided to search online dictionaries for these three terms and amazingly
on its own start talking about seduction and men and women. Here goes:
Positive: (Photog.) with the light and shade corresponding to those of the subject (such as belief systems)
Upbeat: lively; cheerful; an upward trend; upswing
at·ten·tive (ə ten′tiv)
1. paying attention / observant
2. considerate, **courteous**, devoted, etc. an attentive husband
Think thoughtful
thought·ful (t̸hôt′fəl)
adjective
1. full of thought; meditative; thinking
2. showing or characterized by thought;** serious a thoughtful essay
3. heedful, careful, attentive, etc.; esp., considerate of others; kind
VS.
Antonyms selfish*, boorish*, inconsiderate.
thoughtful, as compared here, implies the showing of thought for the comfort or well-being
of others, as by anticipating their needs or wishes it was thoughtful of you to call;
**considerate implies a thoughtful or sympathetic regard for the feelings or circumstances of
others,
__________________________________________________________________
****as in sparing them pain, distress, or discomfort ;****
___________________________________________________________________
attentive implies a constant thoughtfulness as shown by repeated acts of
consideration, courtesy, or devotion an attentive suitor
VS. The Fukker husband
# and having little or no concern for others; self-centered
# showing or prompted by self-interest
#self-indulgent,gives/shares less than needed or expected including indulging him(one)self,
#wrapped up in oneself, narrow, **narrow-minded**,
#prejudiced, egoistical, egoistic, looking out for number one* to the expense of the loved one.
And now you know why she likes you!!
While reading an essay on banging married women I can across its advice on what to do three simple words: be positive, attentive, and upbeat.
So I decided to search online dictionaries for these three terms and amazingly
on its own start talking about seduction and men and women. Here goes:
Positive: (Photog.) with the light and shade corresponding to those of the subject (such as belief systems)
Upbeat: lively; cheerful; an upward trend; upswing
at·ten·tive (ə ten′tiv)
1. paying attention / observant
2. considerate, **courteous**, devoted, etc. an attentive husband
Think thoughtful
thought·ful (t̸hôt′fəl)
adjective
1. full of thought; meditative; thinking
2. showing or characterized by thought;** serious a thoughtful essay
3. heedful, careful, attentive, etc.; esp., considerate of others; kind
VS.
Antonyms selfish*, boorish*, inconsiderate.
thoughtful, as compared here, implies the showing of thought for the comfort or well-being
of others, as by anticipating their needs or wishes it was thoughtful of you to call;
**considerate implies a thoughtful or sympathetic regard for the feelings or circumstances of
others,
__________________________________________________________________
****as in sparing them pain, distress, or discomfort ;****
___________________________________________________________________
attentive implies a constant thoughtfulness as shown by repeated acts of
consideration, courtesy, or devotion an attentive suitor
VS. The Fukker husband
# and having little or no concern for others; self-centered
# showing or prompted by self-interest
#self-indulgent,gives/shares less than needed or expected including indulging him(one)self,
#wrapped up in oneself, narrow, **narrow-minded**,
#prejudiced, egoistical, egoistic, looking out for number one* to the expense of the loved one.
And now you know why she likes you!!
ExcelNPrevail
Don Juan
No.
Destroying a relationship due to your own selfish desire just doesnt fly in my book. Why would you want to get with a married women? To get another ego boost, that will only last 3-4 days,only to find out that its just meaningless?
If she cheats, let it not be with you. Thats her own hell and not yours. Theirs plenty of single women out there.
Destroying a relationship due to your own selfish desire just doesnt fly in my book. Why would you want to get with a married women? To get another ego boost, that will only last 3-4 days,only to find out that its just meaningless?
If she cheats, let it not be with you. Thats her own hell and not yours. Theirs plenty of single women out there.
done it without knowing. wouldnt reccomend it.
found her ring on the bedside table the next morning when i woke up first. with inscribed on the inside. i asked her later and she said she was married her husband is overseas..i avoided her after that.
i saw them a couple of months later in a mall, she walked up and intro'd me to her husband..most awkward moment ever for me, coz he didnt know i had busted her nut. never saw them again.
found her ring on the bedside table the next morning when i woke up first. with inscribed on the inside. i asked her later and she said she was married her husband is overseas..i avoided her after that.
i saw them a couple of months later in a mall, she walked up and intro'd me to her husband..most awkward moment ever for me, coz he didnt know i had busted her nut. never saw them again.
Barefoot Boy
Don Juan
Like my tag line says: have compassion for yourself.
Men in North America don't have compassion for themselves, we are torn down be feminazies, more likely into be in prison, die from accidents at work, from violent crime or live a shorter life.
These married women will, if not you, given two months or two years later find a FB.
I doubt that any woman (that I've turned down living in fear) from rich families would really would give up their house, the car, their approval of family or the fear, that crazy word: fear, of people that in the neighborhood who they really don't know or really like would say or gossip to leave the fukker for me.:yes:
If you've been tricked by a married woman, I'm sorry that they lied.
For me life is the now, so I've gotten thru my thick skull,there is no perfect life. Be happy and don't beat yourself up for being human.
Men in North America don't have compassion for themselves, we are torn down be feminazies, more likely into be in prison, die from accidents at work, from violent crime or live a shorter life.
These married women will, if not you, given two months or two years later find a FB.
I doubt that any woman (that I've turned down living in fear) from rich families would really would give up their house, the car, their approval of family or the fear, that crazy word: fear, of people that in the neighborhood who they really don't know or really like would say or gossip to leave the fukker for me.:yes:
If you've been tricked by a married woman, I'm sorry that they lied.
For me life is the now, so I've gotten thru my thick skull,there is no perfect life. Be happy and don't beat yourself up for being human.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.