JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
Ryan.. That's my point. There are some guys who are there for the slut phase and then there's the shlup who's there to pick up the pieces when she's ready to settle down.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.