"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would you marry HB9-10s

CherryBreaker

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I know all of us are in search of these HB9s and HB10s but even when we get them, would you seriously consider marrying them?

From experience, I find them selfish, lazy, and only concerned with themselves and that's just in the BF/GF phase. Most of them cheat BTW when they turn you into an AFC. Because of this site, I've been able to break their hearts w/o feeling bad.

Not only that, half of them have kid(s) already.

Yur thawts...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Are you asking whether or not a guy would marry a woman only for her looks?
 

quest

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soon as you marry a girl, she's just gonna get fat and lazy anyway..

"oh lets have kids. i'll go back to work once they are 2. i'll lose the weight."

2 years time.

a. "lets have another kid. i'm ready for it now. i'll start my career after this one, plus, I didn't put on that much weight."
b. "this kids a real handful. Better wait until he starts school before i get back into my career. Why don't my old clothes fit?"

3 years more.

"I can't work now, I've been out of the workforce for too long. Plus, I'm not confident because I don't look good in a skirt anymore."

10 years more.

"Why are you banging your secretary? *gurgle* *burp* we have a family together *fart* I can't believe you did this look at your (red headed, pimple faced, computer nerd, who just so happens to hate you) son."
 

ICaughtFire

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man ur just thinking of the worst case scenario, if u know how to find a good wife it wouldn't happen, just think of the despearte housewives, except u get to keep them to urself in bed
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Evangenlion

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quest you crack me up.

Yes i would marry a HB9 or HB10. my girlfriend is a HB 9.4 (imagine the lenght i took to calculate that) and we're planning to marry.

the difference here is that u can't stop cracking the whip on her everytime she gives u her bull.
 

quest

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Originally posted by Evangenlion
:crackup:

quest you crack me up.

Yes i would marry a HB9 or HB10. my girlfriend is a HB 9.4 (imagine the lenght i took to calculate that) and we're planning to marry.

the difference here is that u can't stop cracking the whip on her everytime she gives u her bull.
:)

I'll probably get married some day...

But mentally, right now, I'm a very long way from it.

-my main point is, a 21 year old HB9, MIGHT not be a 31 year old HB9.
 

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i dont know what the word marry means, sorry cant help you there.
 

backbreaker

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I have a theory on HB 9's and up...

It's not that they are immature... I mean, most are, but it's not their fault.

I mean, imagine if you Quest, could get everything in life you wanted becasue of your looks, you would be pretty rotten and heartless too.

Once a HB meets a real man, they usually snap out of it. Most women, espically hot ones, never had a guy that didn't become a total AFC around them. My Ex was like that, totally dumbfounded when I told her I really didn't want to date her at first.


Me personally however, I am not getting married... I wouldn't mind settling down with one, but I am not getting married
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lost In Translation

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Old Italian Proverb -

The man who marries a beautiful woman never sleeps


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
 
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