"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Would you marry HB9-10s

CherryBreaker

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I know all of us are in search of these HB9s and HB10s but even when we get them, would you seriously consider marrying them?

From experience, I find them selfish, lazy, and only concerned with themselves and that's just in the BF/GF phase. Most of them cheat BTW when they turn you into an AFC. Because of this site, I've been able to break their hearts w/o feeling bad.

Not only that, half of them have kid(s) already.

Yur thawts...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Are you asking whether or not a guy would marry a woman only for her looks?
 

quest

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soon as you marry a girl, she's just gonna get fat and lazy anyway..

"oh lets have kids. i'll go back to work once they are 2. i'll lose the weight."

2 years time.

a. "lets have another kid. i'm ready for it now. i'll start my career after this one, plus, I didn't put on that much weight."
b. "this kids a real handful. Better wait until he starts school before i get back into my career. Why don't my old clothes fit?"

3 years more.

"I can't work now, I've been out of the workforce for too long. Plus, I'm not confident because I don't look good in a skirt anymore."

10 years more.

"Why are you banging your secretary? *gurgle* *burp* we have a family together *fart* I can't believe you did this look at your (red headed, pimple faced, computer nerd, who just so happens to hate you) son."
 

ICaughtFire

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man ur just thinking of the worst case scenario, if u know how to find a good wife it wouldn't happen, just think of the despearte housewives, except u get to keep them to urself in bed
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Evangenlion

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quest you crack me up.

Yes i would marry a HB9 or HB10. my girlfriend is a HB 9.4 (imagine the lenght i took to calculate that) and we're planning to marry.

the difference here is that u can't stop cracking the whip on her everytime she gives u her bull.
 

quest

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Originally posted by Evangenlion
:crackup:

quest you crack me up.

Yes i would marry a HB9 or HB10. my girlfriend is a HB 9.4 (imagine the lenght i took to calculate that) and we're planning to marry.

the difference here is that u can't stop cracking the whip on her everytime she gives u her bull.
:)

I'll probably get married some day...

But mentally, right now, I'm a very long way from it.

-my main point is, a 21 year old HB9, MIGHT not be a 31 year old HB9.
 

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i dont know what the word marry means, sorry cant help you there.
 

backbreaker

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I have a theory on HB 9's and up...

It's not that they are immature... I mean, most are, but it's not their fault.

I mean, imagine if you Quest, could get everything in life you wanted becasue of your looks, you would be pretty rotten and heartless too.

Once a HB meets a real man, they usually snap out of it. Most women, espically hot ones, never had a guy that didn't become a total AFC around them. My Ex was like that, totally dumbfounded when I told her I really didn't want to date her at first.


Me personally however, I am not getting married... I wouldn't mind settling down with one, but I am not getting married
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lost In Translation

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Old Italian Proverb -

The man who marries a beautiful woman never sleeps


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
 
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