"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Would you marry again?

KarmaSutra

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Isn't that the sole reason why we come here? To recognize what we will and, more importantly, will not settle for? I seem to be in the extreme minority when it comes to being in a wonderful relationship with Mrs. K and it's quite disheartnening.

I am no better than any brother who comes here. However, I do take solace in the fact that I've worked damned hard to find out who I truly am and what boundaries I will never step over or duck under. This is what keeps her intrigued because she knows without a doubt that I am a man who stands by the virtue of his own power. A man who understands and accepts the responsibility for his life and the direction it goes.

I wish there were more of us than not.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My married friend and I had an interesting discusssion. He's going through a bitter divorce and is full of fear about his financial future. He's barely scraping by and has had to make a lot of sacrifices to make ends meet. Meanwhile, his future ex is driving a new vehicle, shopping til she's dropping and gorging at the finer restaurants. She knows she's got him by the kahunas and has no problems making ends meet on his dime.

We reached the conclusion that divorce was created for women to move on with their lives with as little inconvenience to them while putting the man in a financial straight-jacket which could take decades to take off. He's bitter and I don't blame him.

These days a man has to be very careful since one bad move could cause a life time of consequences.
 

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I am open to the possibility of getting married. I will only ever get married once and I'll be very choosey in my wife if I ever do get married. I will never seriously date a women who's ever been divorced. I tried it once and will never do it again, there is a reason she's been divorced.
 
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