"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would you marry a woman with $166K in student debt?

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Well, depends on what you do. If you work in a non-profit for 10 years the loans are forgiven after those 10 years or 120 monthly payments. Or, they have the 20 year forgiveness program right now as well. Usually for both of these to work you need to have out a relatively high proportional balance of student loans v.s. your annual income, to get a significant amount forgiven (in which the forgiven amount could potentially be taxed as well).

Another way to get the loans discharged is in cases of disability or if you die, which of course neither is preferable lol.

Plus, someone said that student loans can't be eliminated in bankruptcy and that's not "totally" true. You "could" get them to add the student loans to the bankruptcy if you are in a seriously bad financial situation where continuing to have the loans would lead to extreme hardship.

You guys can refer to this link for more information on these strategies: https://studentaid.ed.gov/repay-loans/forgiveness-cancellation
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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