"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would You Marry a Girl Who is Handicapped?

Hitman10000

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Okay first things first:

1. Can you handle people staring at you and her in the public? Go out a few times to find this out.

2. Can you see yourself being married to this person in the long future and being her caretaker as well?

For me, I would not date a girl who is in a wheelchair or handicapped in any other manner. However if I am indeed married to a woman and have been in a LTR and she just recently became handicapped, I will be with her no matter what.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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macknetikcharm

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robrulesyou said:
I have a situation that's really bothering me.

I'm dating this girl and we've been together for almost 8 months now. I think I love her but I don't know. I know she loves me because she's said so.

because this stress is really eating me alive. thanks for any help and ideas.

Rob
What does your HEART tell you to do?:cool:

This girl needs a STRONG man because she is more delicate INSIDE and OUT than a "regular" girl-- she needs a REAL MAN who can handle it.
 
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