Would you keep your ex on Facebook?

[guitaronfire411]

Here's the deal:

- we were FWB for two weeks and then I got LJBFed, I thought I could handle it, but I can't.

- the last time I saw her, she was rude, gave short answers, sat far away from me, and ignored me out in public.

- She had literally had "nothing" to say to me when I asked her if she wanted to tell me anything before she left for good. (She knew that we wouldn't see each other for a long time.)

- Said that Sat would be the "last time" we would ever meet rather matter-of-factly.

- she has kept me on her FB but has ignored two messages I've sent her -- one with pictures I said I would send, the other just some text.

- she has kept pictures of her and I together tagged

- her sister is being a *****, saying I was strange and congratulating her on dumping me underneath the last photo we took together.

- I've read no reaction is the best response, which I have done until now. If I ever wanted to get her interested in a romantic frame, should I cut all contact with her?

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

No.

This hits home with me. My ex (after much ado) ended our 4 year LTR 2 months ago. I deactivated my Facebook the same night. A couple days ago I decided to reactivate it and delete her. Well, I just had to check her profile out before I deleted it, right? All kinds of pictures of her and her new bf, right on the wall.

Some say it's immature to delete your ex off Facebook, but I believe in 100% no contact at all, and that includes not giving her the right to think she's rubbing her new bf in your face over the internet.

Get on your horse and ride away.

 

[guitaronfire411]

Thanks guys. I know to walk away in person but wasn't sure what to do in an online situation.

If I get any response at all, I suspect I'll just say I wanted to move on if we weren't going to have a future together.

 

[GuanYu]

Probably depends on how often you use Facebook. If you're b!tch made and on there like dorks are on World of Warcraft, then yeah go ahead and delete.

If you have a real life, not too worried about Facebook and not on there a lot because you have better shyt to do then it shouldn't matter.

 

[Jay Dee]

Keep what little self-respect you have left and don't even meet with her on the Saturday, the way she is talking she is controlling the frame before she leaves - don't do it. If she asks, say you're still up for meeting but don't actually go. She has little respect for you now and would only be romantically interested if you were one of the last blokes available.

Ironically the one time you stand up to her is the time she'll actually notice you again. But still no guarantee you'll get anything out of it. It probably won't be worth the amount of trouble to turn things around unless you have a mind of detachment and can spin it with other chicks to keep your mind off her... move onto another chick.

 

[Mr. Bond]

I've kept my exes as friends on facebook, and cut contact with them as needed. I'd say there's nothing wrong with being facebook friends as long as you don't contact her. Why? It's a good way to make her regret what she did. Go out and get hotter girls, go be happy and successful. That's the best revenge on her.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

My ex texted me recently and asked if she could add me on myspace and I said no. I myself am starting to believe in the no contact at all, even if they initiate it.

 

[bud_2005]

My ex-girlfriend who dated me for 2 years recently broke up with me about 3 months ago and started dating another guy. At first I was checking her Facebook every day looking for evidencde of her new relationship. Suddenly it started popping up about how well her new relationship was. She suddenly typing stuff up on her news updates like" Thanks for an amazing night" or " I didn't forget about our 2 month anniversary but I got something planned..." It would break my heart whenever I read that stuff. I avoided Facebook for weeks because of scared of her name popping up on a news update.

I went ahead and deleted her because I was terrified of what I was reading. It felt a lot better and it was the absolutely right choice. You must do it.

I read in celebrity magazines of girls making comment like: "It is very important to remain friends of my ex-bfs" and I don't understand why or would the guy would put up with that.