Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Would you hit a girl?

BongDuy

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I always wondered this, and since women always complain about equality and blah blah blah, but still.


This one time in Highschool, this girl had this attitude, probably from a joke i said ( she has a ****ty sense of humor ) and so she punched me in the face pretty hard, like a knock out punch. i was pretty shocked, so i didn't do anything extreme, instead i walked away.


I dont think i would hit a woman, unless she either had a gun, knife, or tried to attack my balls..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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women haze

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Nah, I would never lay a hand on a woman
 
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I gotta wonder.

What if you married a BPD girl, and you get sent off to Iraq for a few tours, and while you are over there getting shot at your wife was horing it up and banging the whole town and when you come home, you find out what she was doing.

You decide to stay with her and go out one night and get trashed and she starts talking sh!t....

I think I would bash her head into the wall.

I dated a girl recently who said her ex beat her after he came home from Iraq. Above is how I think the scenario played out. Ofcourse she talked like she was the innocent victim but the truth is she is a little cheating lying slut who probably deserved to get her head smashed.
 

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Life or death, self defense situations only. Otherwise it's never cool to hit a woman. Walk away.
 

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if she talked back :box:

I kid, I kid, lol. In all seriousness I wouldn't unless she was bent causing serious injury to me, then I would incapacitate her (all this is self defense though, kind of a far fetched situation).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nah, I would never lay a hand on a woman

No man should ever lay a finger on a woman. The only exception is if it's a life threatening situation in which a weapon is involved.

I gotta wonder.

What if you married a BPD girl, and you get sent off to Iraq for a few tours, and while you are over there getting shot at your wife was horing it up and banging the whole town and when you come home, you find out what she was doing.

You decide to stay with her and go out one night and get trashed and she starts talking sh!t....

I think I would bash her head into the wall.

I dated a girl recently who said her ex beat her after he came home from Iraq. This is how I think the scenario probably played out. Ofcourse she talked like she was the innocent victim but the truth is she is a little cheating slut who probably deserved to get her head smashed.


In my personal opinion a woman's infidelity does not give a man any reason or excuse to harm any of the parties involved. I personally think that we as men would generally have an unreasonable expectation of loyalty and morals that put women under such pressure. Why can't we accept the opposite sex for being other flawed human beings such as ourselves? Should it be any surprise that women cheat too?
 

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Nope,wouldn't do it.

That's a one way ticket to the slammer...unless you're Chris Brown,that is.
 
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Nah, I would never lay a hand on a woman

No man should ever lay a finger on a woman. The only exception is if it's a life threatening situation in which a weapon is involved.

I gotta wonder.

What if you married a BPD girl, and you get sent off to Iraq for a few tours, and while you are over there getting shot at your wife was horing it up and banging the whole town and when you come home, you find out what she was doing.

You decide to stay with her and go out one night and get trashed and she starts talking sh!t....

I think I would bash her head into the wall.

I dated a girl recently who said her ex beat her after he came home from Iraq. This is how I think the scenario probably played out. Ofcourse she talked like she was the innocent victim but the truth is she is a little cheating slut who probably deserved to get her head smashed.


In my personal opinion a woman's infidelity does not give a man any reason or excuse to harm any of the parties involved. I personally think that we as men would generally have an unreasonable expectation of loyalty and morals that put women under such pressure. Why can't we accept the opposite sex for being other flawed human beings such as ourselves? Should it be any surprise that women cheat too?

Yeah thats easy to SAY but wait until you find out your wife was doing those things while you are in a warzone.

you can't say you wouldnt hit her unless you are in that situation. I dont think I could ever hit a woman but I put myself in someone elses shoes and who knows what a woman like that could make you do, especially if you are drinking around her.

The best bet would be to NEVER get involved with a woman like this and learn how to spot them and dump them quickly and ofcourse never marry one.
 

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Yeah thats easy to SAY but wait until you find out your wife was doing those things while you are in a warzone.

you can't say you wouldnt hit her unless you are in that situation. I dont think I could ever hit a woman but I put myself in someone elses shoes and who knows what a woman like that could make you do, especially if you are drinking around her.

The best bet would be to NEVER get involved with a woman like this and learn how to spot them and dump them quickly and ofcourse never marry one.


I been in a similiar scenario (without having to serve in the military) with two different women. I wasn't married and neither do I plan on it but I can come to the conclusion that I wouldn't strike a female (or the male involved) based on infidelity. The problem comes from men putting too much emotional investment in their marriages/relationship and expecting too much from the women they are involved with. The male can't handle that a female may be cheating on him.
 

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I don't believe it's ok to physically strike anyone, male or female, unless it's self-defense.

Further, if I observed such behavior on the days when I'm carrying my licensed concealed weapon, depending on how much of a threat I thought the perpetrator was to his victim, he may get a semi-auto shoved in his face until the police showed up to pick him up. Too many people think whacking people on the head or the face isn't life threatening. Guess what, it is.

One of my buddies got thrown down a flight of concrete stairs at a bar when he didn't leave quite as fast as the bouncer wanted (although he was compliant the entire time.) Had I been there, the bouncer would have been subject to an immediate citizens arrest. People can get killed that way. As it is, I hope my buddy is suing him.

Don't mess with the law students man. We don't like thugs much.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah thats easy to SAY but wait until you find out your wife was doing those things while you are in a warzone.

you can't say you wouldnt hit her unless you are in that situation. I dont think I could ever hit a woman but I put myself in someone elses shoes and who knows what a woman like that could make you do, especially if you are drinking around her.

The best bet would be to NEVER get involved with a woman like this and learn how to spot them and dump them quickly and ofcourse never marry one.


I been in a similiar scenario (without having to serve in the military) with two different women. I wasn't married and neither do I plan on it but I can come to the conclusion that I wouldn't strike a female (or the male involved) based on infidelity. The problem comes from men putting too much emotional investment in their marriages/relationship and expecting too much from the women they are involved with. The male can't handle that a female may be cheating on him.
I dont know what I would do, but a woman can drive you to do crazy things if you let her get into your head far enough.

That is why I freaked when I learned this girl had such BPD tendencies and I was falling for her. I lashed out at her, I acted mean and did all sorts of things in my attempts to dump her so she would never come back even if I tried.

I did all sorts of weird things because I knew in my heart that I need this woman out of my life.
 

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I dont know what I would do, but a woman can drive you to do crazy things if you let her get into your head far enough.

That is why I freaked when I learned this girl had such BPD tendencies and I was falling for her. I lashed out at her, I acted mean and did all sorts of things in my attempts to dump her so she would never come back even if I tried.

I did all sorts of weird things because I knew in my heart that I need this woman out of my life.


Don't remind me of those BPD women. Those are the worse. In fact I think both of my exes were BPD and their attitude kind of rubs off on you and becomes a habit that is very difficult to get rid of. In fact I had both exes admit to things I though I would never hear in a million years. They're f*cking crazy!
 

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I wouldnt hit a woman, but I definitely think there are situations where a girl deserves it if a guy does.

I think anyone who blatantly disrespects someone else should get their ass kicked, male or female. It doesnt mean I will do it, but if someone else does... 'I didnt see a fvcking thing, officer.'
 

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I wouldn't hit ANYONE unless they were going to hit me.

99.9% of the time you can walk away. Walk backwards, but walk away.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What i usually do when a woman hits me(cause i get slapped sometimes)is i grab her from like behind and put my arms around her so she cant move and whisper in her ear...Dont ever ****ing hit me again

I would never hit a woman though
 

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Igetit! said:
Nope,wouldn't do it.

That's a one way ticket to the slammer...unless you're Chris Brown,that is.
If hypothetically speaking men didnt go to jail for such things and it was the same as ahitting a guy, would u ever hit a woman?
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
If hypothetically speaking men didnt go to jail for such things and it was the same as ahitting a guy, would u ever hit a woman?

I hate little smucks who ask hypotheticals. If you want to hit a woman just say so. YOur a man. your stronger than the average woman (or you should be, get in the gym). It's no need for you to be hitting on her period unless your life is in danger. That actually goes for men as well. Violence is a last resort.

We all know there are too many smucks out there who would only get a woman and keep one by beating the shiit out of her on a regular basis if it was legal to hit a woman. Are you one of those guys?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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