"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Would you guys want to date a high earning woman who works crazy hours?

bigdave17

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say 50-60 hours a week

I don't think I would want that. I would strongly prefer a girl who works 40 hours a week and has a lot more freedom and flexibility

I mainly just want to date someone who doesn't have a lot of debt. I'm cool with them earning 40 or 50K. I don't see a big benefit to date someone who makes 100K if she has to work 55 hours a week to make it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes, because that's how.much I work if not more.
I work right at 50 but I live 10 minutes from work, off fridays and sundays and then Saturdays I work 9 to 6 so I have decent freedom and flexibility
 

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Lucky you, I'm closer to 60 plus PHd school.

don't you live in LA where 150K is garbage anyways??

I'm gonna have my house paid for 3 in years, I will live like a king on 2800-3300 a month while making 14K a month. My situation is so unbelievably awesome. I try to be very grateful everyday
 
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