"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would you guys want to date a high earning woman who works crazy hours?

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say 50-60 hours a week

I don't think I would want that. I would strongly prefer a girl who works 40 hours a week and has a lot more freedom and flexibility

I mainly just want to date someone who doesn't have a lot of debt. I'm cool with them earning 40 or 50K. I don't see a big benefit to date someone who makes 100K if she has to work 55 hours a week to make it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes, because that's how.much I work if not more.
I work right at 50 but I live 10 minutes from work, off fridays and sundays and then Saturdays I work 9 to 6 so I have decent freedom and flexibility
 

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Lucky you, I'm closer to 60 plus PHd school.

don't you live in LA where 150K is garbage anyways??

I'm gonna have my house paid for 3 in years, I will live like a king on 2800-3300 a month while making 14K a month. My situation is so unbelievably awesome. I try to be very grateful everyday
 
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