Would you guys give this girl one more chance?

[Syrio]

Giving a flake a second strike is giving her another chance to flake.

Why are you going out to lunch with her?

That is a great way to stay just as a friend with low IL.

Men who plan on sleeping with women don't take them out for sandwiches and tea.

They take them out for drinks at night then back to their place for sex.

See the difference?

If she was really interested there would be no uncertainty with her. She would know she wanted to go out with you. She would ask you.

Since you work with her I wouldn't even take this to the next level. If something goes wrong your job could be at risk. No woman is worth that problem.

I wouldn't even bring it up to her. If she is that interested let her be the one to tell you.

She had her chance and flaked.

Take women out who are truly interested and not unsure like she is.

To be fair, I didn't take her out to lunch or anything. We just both went and bought our own lunch from the cafe at work and ate there. I had already assumed that there was no chance of even seeing her outside of work at this point. I was just getting lunch with her because I get lunch with people at work all the time.

I agree though about not bringing it up to her. If she has any interest she'll bring it up again tomorrow. I guess I'll find out.

 

[Soolaimon]

To be fair, I didn't take her out to lunch or anything. We just both went and bought our own lunch from the cafe at work and ate there. I had already assumed that there was no chance of even seeing her outside of work at this point. I was just getting lunch with her because I get lunch with people at work all the time.

I agree though about not bringing it up to her. If she has any interest she'll bring it up again tomorrow. I guess I'll find out.

What does that matter?

You still are eating lunch with her aren't you?

Why are you asking for more advice if you already assumed her lack of interest?

Eating lunch with women you haven't banged is a friendly activity between friends. She will see it that way too.

If she had any intentions of moving this to the next level she would want an actual date.

She had that date and she flaked.

Does that sound like a woman who wants your d1ck in her?

Women aren't stupid when it comes to sex. They know what they want right away and will do anything to get it.

She flaked on you and is still unsure of an actual date.

Don't waste your time with flakes or co workers.

 

[Fugitive]

Syrio she asked you out to the party and you basically said maybe. At which point she chickened out and made an exit before the risk of rejection.

If I were you I'd go up to her and say "Listen if I ask you out are you going to turn up or make a last minute excuse about how you need to wash you're hair?" (along those lines i.e. initiate, be forward and dominant and make her laugh). Most likely she will go out with you and anything can happen from there. Also highly unlikely she will flake on you again as lets face it, it was awkward enough her flaking on you last time.

Obviously she likes you or she would just stay out of your way. So recognise an opportunity and take it.