"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would YOU give special treatment to a celebrity?

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What is with all this celeb worship and idol worship?

Not in my world, celebs are no different than us - I'm not giving her any special treatment - I love how this celeb got OWNED

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ufN-a7Xqx7g

I worship God only, and I know 2 things

#1 There is a God

#2 You are NOT him
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've met a few singers and rappers in social situations in Atlanta. The ones I've met seemed like nice enough people and if you treat them like normal folks they act like normal folks and appreciate the lack of fame worshiping. Andre from Outcast was one of the coolest celebrities I ever met, really down to earth guy who just seemed happy to be a rapper. Vanilla Ice was the biggest douchebag I ever met for someone who was completely washed up at the time.
 

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Short answer= Hell NO!!

Longer answer= I would treat them like any one else.

Longest answer= Take Sandra Bullock, for instance. She once did nothing for more, but as I get older, as does she, I find her hot. I would treat her better than Jesse James did. But I still would not worship her.
 

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Celebrity worship isn't something that men really do. Celebrity's just don't seem that special.

Women are the ones who "fall in love" with celebs and will watch a movie just because x person is in it. There isn't any question about it, who are magazines like Star and people aimed at?

I wouldn't bother getting autographs or even trying to talk to them, unless they were a very attractive woman. Then they'd be worth my time. And even then I wouldn't treat them any differently than any other woman.
 

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I know 2 things

#1 There is NO God

#2 we rot away in the ground when we die!
(unles your cremated, then your burnt!)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maxtro said:
Celebrity worship isn't something that men really do. Celebrity's just don't seem that special.
Excuse me, how many men worship the ground professional athletes walk on? How many men would give their right nut to get an autograph from Michael Jordan?

Now, you can say: 'Oh well those guys are talented, so they deserve our worship.'

Uh, no they don't. I admire their abilities, but in the end, they are just human. Jordan sucks at baseball and as a majority owner of the Charlotte Bobcats, he even drafted Kwame Brown.
 

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Hmm, as somebody who has zero interest in professional sports I hadn't considered athletes as celebrities.

You do have a point that some men do worship athletes. I guess men aren't better than women in that area.
 
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