"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would you fukk an engaged ex?

STR8UP

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WestCoaster said:
I can see where a guy would cave in and do so. I'd never initiate it, however. If the woman initiates it, the married-to-be has bigger problems than he can possibly imagine.
I agree. The thing is, I do like this girl as a person, but she isn't relationship material. She drinks too much and when she's on the sauce she is prone to jealous outbursts. I really do feel sorry for this guy to tell you the truth. Add the fact that she is still talking sex talk around me (despite whether or not she would act upon it) and you have a pretty volatile situation.

I know one thing: Women do what they're going to do, even if it's wrong. They'll always excuse it with some reason.
I agree with this as well. I doubt it would be too difficult for her to justify hooking uo with me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Luveno

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Marriage is BS.

Screwing a married chick can have various monetary and legal ramifications for both her and her husband, so doing that has the possibility of making you into a huge jerk.

Screwing an engaged chick does not have any legal concequences. Worst case scenario is that their relationship is ruined. Best case is that nobody finds out.

I remember when I did this. It was about a year ago. Now she's married and happy, and I am happy that I had a good night with her. We've gone on with our lives.

So go for it. Who cares?
 

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Go for it.
 
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