"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would you flirt with someone

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Francisco, biker shorts cost $150 dollars?? This store chick has serious game!! She was quite forward - did she put you in a head lock and force you to take her number? :rolleyes: I guess you didn't take the hint or maybe you are not attracted to her?

And "No", guys do not flirt -- flirting is wholly in the woman's domain to show a man that SHE will accept HIM if he advances!! Flirting is used as a reassurance mechanism on the woman's part and let's the guy know, "Yes, I'm available and I will accept your offer if you make one!"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJnoob

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Let me get this straight..Flirting.. theres 2 kinds..


Physical which is KINO... should you initiate KINO?

Then theres verbal... so, you shouldn't flirt with her "DIRECTLY"? "Directly"... meaning saying something like "You have a very beautiful smile" etc.. ???

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Francisco, biker shorts cost $150 dollars?? This store chick has serious game!! She was quite forward - did she put you in a head lock and force you to take her number? :rolleyes: I guess you didn't take the hint or maybe you are not attracted to her?

And "No", guys do not flirt -- flirting is wholly in the woman's domain to show a man that SHE will accept HIM if he advances!! Flirting is used as a reassurance mechanism on the woman's part and let's the guy know, "Yes, I'm available and I will accept your offer if you make one!"
They were $145 a pair retail. She had game once I showed some interest in her after blowing her off the first time. Our 10 minute conversation involved both of us trading flirts and some light kino (I had to check out her calves).

I hear what you are saying about why a woman flirts but I see the way that I C/F and a woman as a form of flirtation. I told her that it was hard to tell how fit she was and actually looked dumpy in the store uniform but probably looked better in her bike shorts. I considered that a flirtation.
 
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