"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco, biker shorts cost $150 dollars?? This store chick has serious game!! She was quite forward - did she put you in a head lock and force you to take her number? :rolleyes: I guess you didn't take the hint or maybe you are not attracted to her?

And "No", guys do not flirt -- flirting is wholly in the woman's domain to show a man that SHE will accept HIM if he advances!! Flirting is used as a reassurance mechanism on the woman's part and let's the guy know, "Yes, I'm available and I will accept your offer if you make one!"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Let me get this straight..Flirting.. theres 2 kinds..


Physical which is KINO... should you initiate KINO?

Then theres verbal... so, you shouldn't flirt with her "DIRECTLY"? "Directly"... meaning saying something like "You have a very beautiful smile" etc.. ???

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Francisco, biker shorts cost $150 dollars?? This store chick has serious game!! She was quite forward - did she put you in a head lock and force you to take her number? :rolleyes: I guess you didn't take the hint or maybe you are not attracted to her?

And "No", guys do not flirt -- flirting is wholly in the woman's domain to show a man that SHE will accept HIM if he advances!! Flirting is used as a reassurance mechanism on the woman's part and let's the guy know, "Yes, I'm available and I will accept your offer if you make one!"
They were $145 a pair retail. She had game once I showed some interest in her after blowing her off the first time. Our 10 minute conversation involved both of us trading flirts and some light kino (I had to check out her calves).

I hear what you are saying about why a woman flirts but I see the way that I C/F and a woman as a form of flirtation. I told her that it was hard to tell how fit she was and actually looked dumpy in the store uniform but probably looked better in her bike shorts. I considered that a flirtation.
 
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