"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Would you ever date a younger girl then you if you look young too?

ziminxe79

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Would you ever date a young then you..if you could pass for a 20 year old guy?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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qweretyuiopas

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I would date someone younger (not much) then again Im only 19. The fact you are asking means you feel a little uncomfortable with dating a woman younger than you (from the sounds of it way younger that you) You say pass for 20 lol you could be 30 then. Are we talking about a 30 yr old with a 17 or 18 yr old chick?
 

ziminxe79

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qweretyuiopas said:
I would date someone younger (not much) then again Im only 19. The fact you are asking means you feel a little uncomfortable with dating a woman younger than you (from the sounds of it way younger that you) You say pass for 20 lol you could be 30 then. Are we talking about a 30 yr old with a 17 or 18 yr old chick?

well iam 27 but many people tell me that i look 19..so that means i can pass for a 19 year old?:rock:
 

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Sure why not? Just as long as it's legal! Although my girlfriends actually tend to be my age or a year or two older than me, I find the younger girls are waaaaay easier to attract, usually I barely even have to do anything besides just acting like a man and they'll be ALL OVER ME!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kourt

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Kings_royalty said:
I'm an equal opportunity lover, so yes; I would date someone younger than me. Now, would I 'keep' her around long enough to consider her a 'girlfriend'? That depends on the chemistry between us.

equal opportunity love that cracked me up
 

Phyzzle

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Whoah, 17? No way!

18 is fine though.

That's just the way society works. You've gotta draw the line somewhere.
 

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I look younger than I am, and i'll date anything that's legal. Age to me is just a number. If she's too immature, I won't date her no matter how old she is.

If i don't truly feel or notice that she is younger than me when we talk, her age is too me irrelevant.

I date young chicks because I can :)
 

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I'm in my mid thirties and still get carded. Some think i'm still 19,20 or so. But it's nothing special to me. What am I going to have in common with a 19,20, or 21 year old girl. Zilch! I'll let the immature guys have the immature girls all to themselves.
 
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