"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would you even bother?

captain55

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Been talking to this chick casually I like her but she has no filter. We haven’t even slept together yet but she’s said some things that are so out of left field I can’t tell if she’s **** testing me or legitimately has no filter.

She goes “I’ve only known two guys in my life that were amazing in bed and I consider sex adonises . I’ve had some guys that were close but never a 10 in bed”

Now I’m not official with this chick we’ve only gone out a couple times and I haven’t even banged her so I don’t really give a **** but I texted her “why are you telling me this”. She goes “why are you jealous I didn’t mention any names”.


A couple more comments and I hit her with
“Clearly they never taught you how to talk to a man” and she said fine then don’t talk to me. And I haven’t hit her up since.

She texted me today saying I made her sad because she knows she’s “too much for some people” and she tries to hide it with me and doesn’t want me thinking she’s weird.

Should I give this broad a chance? I’m all for mind games but I’ve never had a chick try to **** with me this early on especially one.i haven’t even slept with. Takes some serious nerve and balls haha
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sure. I would had just said, sweetie, you've not seen anything yet. And then end with a sly grin. I'd play along with a push and pull method. Some call it give and take. She seems to be interested in riding your pogo stick. Why depraver her of the honor? Just make sure you slay it in bed. Soft biting, hair pulling (lightly), slapping of the a-s-s, etc. If you're able, get a blindfold and have her wear that during sex. I'm telling you, they're first a bit apprehensive, but it gives them intense orgasms for the simple fact of the unknown. Just say, let's play a little game, you're going to love it. If she pushes back, drop it, but it aways works for me. I use these blindfolds. Cheap and effective. Plus, a new one for each woman. You can even have them take it with them so when you go back to their place, it's waiting for you to teach her a thing or two.

Trust when I say, you'll pass this test.
 

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Playing into her mind games means that you've already lost.

I would have either ignored that she even said it or ignored her in general. It was a very pompous thing for her to say and although I like confident women, I dont deal with conceited women or those who outwardly compare me to other guys.

Try to make Glassguy jealous and you get ghosted. I have no time for that immature shyte
 

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Playing into her mind games means that you've already lost.

I would have either ignored that she even said it or ignored her in general. It was a very pompous thing for her to say and although I like confident women, I dont deal with conceited women or those who outwardly compare me to other guys.

Try to make Glassguy jealous and you get ghosted. I have no time for that immature shyte
I actually wouldn’t mind if she compared me to other guys she’s ****ed, it’s the fact that she hasn’t even slept with me yet and had nerve to say that which bothers me. Your supposed to keep a certain level of filter when your getting to know someone.

She also brags about how she doesn’t care about maintaining relationships with her friends, how she’s never loved any guy, brags about how cold she is etc. I’m thinking to myself why would you tell me this? What man would possibly this attractive? Usually girls do the opppsite and lie about what great people they are. This broad does not give a ****. I still like her tho
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd have said "Well you'll be disappointed with me then. 2 pump chump reporting for duty." But she sounds like a headcase playing headcase games and no I wouldn't bother.
Was she trying to make me jealous or is she really as much of an idiot as she makes herself out to be?
 

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Sure. I would had just said, sweetie, you've not seen anything yet. And then end with a sly grin. I'd play along with a push and pull method. Some call it give and take. She seems to be interested in riding your pogo stick. Why depraver her of the honor? Just make sure you slay it in bed. Soft biting, hair pulling (lightly), slapping of the a-s-s, etc. If you're able, get a blindfold and have her wear that during sex. I'm telling you, they're first a bit apprehensive, but it gives them intense orgasms for the simple fact of the unknown. Just say, let's play a little game, you're going to love it. If she pushes back, drop it, but it aways works for me. I use these blindfolds. Cheap and effective. Plus, a new one for each woman. You can even have them take it with them so when you go back to their place, it's waiting for you to teach her a thing or two.

Trust when I say, you'll pass this test.
If she ever lets me hit I will lol
 

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Was she trying to make me jealous or is she really as much of an idiot as she makes herself out to be?
Probably a sh1t test to see how you'd react. The fact that it was a conscious test is the problem though. This girl knows she's playing games and doing it on purpose.
 

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Been talking to this chick casually I like her but she has no filter. We haven’t even slept together yet but she’s said some things that are so out of left field I can’t tell if she’s **** testing me or legitimately has no filter.

She goes “I’ve only known two guys in my life that were amazing in bed and I consider sex adonises . I’ve had some guys that were close but never a 10 in bed”

Now I’m not official with this chick we’ve only gone out a couple times and I haven’t even banged her so I don’t really give a **** but I texted her “why are you telling me this”. She goes “why are you jealous I didn’t mention any names”.


A couple more comments and I hit her with
“Clearly they never taught you how to talk to a man” and she said fine then don’t talk to me. And I haven’t hit her up since.

She texted me today saying I made her sad because she knows she’s “too much for some people” and she tries to hide it with me and doesn’t want me thinking she’s weird.

Should I give this broad a chance? I’m all for mind games but I’ve never had a chick try to **** with me this early on especially one.i haven’t even slept with. Takes some serious nerve and balls haha
Its just another woman that wants to play games which apparently turns her on when she does.

She goes “I’ve only known two guys in my life that were amazing in bed and I consider sex adonises . I’ve had some guys that were close but never a 10 in bed”
This right here is what her expectations are of you, my reply to this really would have been

"A 10 are usual in my bed and im not sure if you can meet my expectations"

Let her know she aint enough for you cause she is arleady trying to mind **** you for no reason.

Clearly they never taught you how to talk to a man
Why u get buthurt? No point. You show you are buthurt and she will continue to do that.

Lower her when she tries to bring her self up there in the stars.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She goes “I’ve only known 2 guys in my life that were amazing in bed and I consider sex adonises . I’ve had some guys that were close but never a 10 in bed”
Her: “I’ve only known two guys in my life that were amazing in bed and I consider sex adonises . I’ve had some guys that were close but never a 10 in bed”
You: “What do you consider amazing/ a sex adonise? How many guys have you slept with?


When girls offer information about themselves, use it against them to get more information about them.

Now I’m not official with this chick we’ve only gone out a couple times and I haven’t even banged her so I don’t really give a **** but I texted her “why are you telling me this”.
Texting is only for setting up appointments, not discussions.

She goes “why are you jealous I didn’t mention any names”.
Her: ‘’why are you jealous I didn’t mention any names”.
You: “I am jealous, give me their names.”

She texted me today saying I made her sad because she knows she’s “too much for some people” and she tries to hide it with me and doesn’t want me thinking she’s weird.

Should I give this broad a chance? I’m all for mind games but I’ve never had a chick try to **** with me this early on especially one.i haven’t even slept with.
Talking dirty is playing ‘’mind games?’’ Wow.
 
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