You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sure....Cinamon said:Personally i'd prefer a bigger bust, but definetly beats going home alone after a night out
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
How the hell do you have 0 posts? Are you a ghost?Tony T said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
agreed.horaholic said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Daddy The Pimp said:
Yeah I know. I just was interested to see what other dudes and ladies too I guess think about her. I kind of want to know if I can take her out in public, if you know what I mean.IKO69 said:
No. I slept with her twice now. It was pretty easy actually. She added me on facebook(I'm starting to really like that site. I've already had 3 dates and some numbers. And it's so ****ing easy to get your foot in the door.) and we started posting shiit on each others walls and then emailed each other a few times then I got her to set up in chat and met her at a bar, because she likes to drink and is a pretty cool chick. Most of you guys would think she's real and fun. See she used to be my sister's best friend in High School and I liked her and would always tease her and she would act mad, but I could tell she like me, but I never got to do anything with her. She was pretty fvcking hot in high school too.evesman said:
That's your opinion. Nobody hates you for it. But do you count latin chicks as white, because they are the shiznits.Negative_Nancy said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Tony T said:Oh No....Don't Tell me....
She's a Dude Right....???
And you Bangin her?
And now...you're feeling guilty?
And you want some Emotional Support from the group for your transgressions....RIGHT?
lOL....OK.....we got the picture now!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
