Would you date a woman that does not drink?

[SgtSplacker]

I don't consider myself an alcoholic, i'm sure I am one though by the standards of AA. I don't have more than one drink at home or by myself. I'm strictly a social drinker. So I don't think I have a problem with drinking, but I do have a problem if a girl i'm considering doesn't drink. It's like what are we going to do when we go out? To me all the fun is getting a little **** faced and talking crap with your friends.

So if you are a drinker, have you ever had success dating a non drinker?

I for one hate drinking around people not drinking...

 

[Purefilth]

I agree it doesnt make things easy. ive not done someone who doesnt at least drink occasionally

 

[konmai]

i know some straight edge girls like that, and they won't even consider an ltr with someone who does drink even just socially.

 

[Droz88]

I view it as a huge positive personally. Alcohol is a crutch. Now, if a chick is insanely dull and still doesn't drink then I'd be less enthused

In my experience most girls who don't drink are dull and kinda ugly. I agree, I would prefer girls who don't drink cause if you can have fun with them sober then you can have fun anytime.

 

[PDubb75]

I would date a girl that doesn't drink IF she still went out to bars and had a good time. That's how my sister is, and that's how one of my ex's best friends is. They both have a great time still, and you don't even notice it.

The only time I could really see it being anything but a positive is when it's just you and her at home or something. I like drinking wine, but I'm not gonna drink alone at home.

 

[gpshields3]

I view it as a huge positive personally. Alcohol is a crutch. Now, if a chick is insanely dull and still doesn't drink then I'd be less enthused

yeah but you're a paranoid weirdo. you probably think all girls who enjoy a glass of wine are drunken sluts. you must have been cheated on. repeatedly.

 

[GotED?]

In fact I ONLY look for women that don't drink (or only during meals) - to me that is QUALITY material for LTR; my preference, and not for everyone.

With respect,

Exodus

 

[Atom Smasher]

In fact I ONLY look for women that don't drink (or only during meals) - to me that is QUALITY material for LTR; my preference, and not for everyone.

With respect,

Exodus

I'm in the same camp. I find quality of character increases drastically in women who don't drink or who only drink occasionally. Of course there will be a wide range of opinion on this subject as we're all looking for different things.

 

[EastWind]

In fact I ONLY look for women that don't drink (or only during meals) - to me that is QUALITY material for LTR; my preference, and not for everyone.

With respect,

Exodus

I'm on board with you, though personally I find a single drink (one beer, one glass of wine, a bit of really good whiskey...) in social settings to be acceptable as well. Which is the standard I'm imposing to myself, hence...

 

[SgtSplacker]

Interdasting...

 

[Who Dares Win]

I could write an essay about trying to pick up girls who dont drink, while Im sure many of them dont drink "with me" after I pick them up I can tell generally that escalating on a complete sober girl require a god mode kino ability which most of us dont have yet.

Quite frankly in this moment I like girls with no inhibitions or moral which makes my plans much easier but I cant deny that when Ill decide to grow a family, I'll be probably join the "good girls who dont drink are better club".

I see your frustration sergent, to try to drink and relax while somebody is not drinking and looking at you is not exactly what puts you in the right mood.

However I invite you guys to consider the fact that many girls simply dont drink because theyr dont really like the company or dont wanna bond with those with them, I doubt those non drinking girls would be so strict if they were with a guy they really liked.

 

[GQ Scott]

I'd prefer my women not to drink alcohol, or very little. I myself drink a fair amount with friends (4-8x a month) but don't NEED to at all.

It's all about finding girls who don't need to use alcohol as a crutch to open up or be fun.

I had a first date with a girl a few days ago (granted we've already had sex before that), and during those 4 hours I had her "piss your pants can't control yourself" laughing, and I was having a pretty awesome time as well. Neither of us had a drop of alcohol that night.

I've also had other girls who after a couple drinks still won't open up or be interesting or worth my time. It varies with every girl.

 

[NobodyCares1]

definitely not drinking alcohol is positive... but I don't mind if she drinks as long as she's not overdoing it...