Would you date a girl with a mentally challenged sibling?

[Bumsniff]

Would you date a girl with a mentally challenged sibling or would it deter you?

 

[d!ckmojo]

I wouldn't

 

[MM92]

why?

 

[Tiguere]

depends on how advance is the retardation? and how hot is the girl.

 

[WorkingDJ]

What kind of question is this? Why?

 

[JohnChops]

this is ****ed up.

 

[Down Low]

I'd date a woman with a mentally challenged sister -- BUT only if she had to watch Bumsniff azz fvck her sister while I azz fvck her.

 

[bigneil]

I have a mentally challenged sibling. Joking. But in general one should never judge a person by their family members. A woman's relationship with her father is the most important thing, but other than that, there isn't much correlation with other family members, unless she had a wicked mom, whereby she can still be strong enough to overcome it.

 

[d!ckmojo]

My good buddy has a mentally challenged sister. Well, he was in love with the sister of another good buddy of mine, and they had a very serious LTR for a long time. But eventually the girl broke it off with him, and the reason why, I found out from my sister (who was also friends with this girl), was because she wanted to have kids one day, but deep down she was really worried that their baby might be retarded, because her family has an Auntie who is mentally challenged, and she was really worried that their genes might have a good chance of producing another one or something...

He was devastated, it took him years to get over it, he wrote some of the most haunting guitar music during that period afterwards, which he would sit in his room and play, with a sombre, melancholic look on his face, wistfully staring away into nothingness, haha.

But yeah, I don't guess it would stop me from dating a girl, but it might stop me from thinking about wifing her up perhaps... not that I ever intend to wife up a b1tch or anything, but I dunno.

 

[TonyBaloney]

This whole topic raises a truth about the heredity of bad genes.

Well worth looking at this issue, and others like cancer, schizopheria and generally anything that can be passed on.

Especially so if you have a sufferer in your family~ doubles up the risk.

Important post.....

 

[Naughty Ninja]

The amazing thing about the "mentally challenged" is if you actually learn about a lot of them you'll see many of them are actually smarter, have more common sense, do and are more efficient even with 'disabilities' than so called 'normal' non mentally challenged chicks or dudes.

If these so called normal people had to deal with the same issues 'disabled' etc people deal with...nuff said.

 

[ka_mate]

Short Answer: Yes I would.

Long Answer: I've worked with mentally and physical 'disabled' people and I associated absolutely no stigma with it. After spending time with them you start to notice little quirks and traits in them that you notice in yourself (it could be something as simple as the way they yawn) and you start to see that we're all humans and that they're not really that different from yourself.

People with Autism are said to be on an autism spectrum and that they have difficulty learning and coping with social situations.

I like to think that we're all really on the same spectrum.

Do you have trouble learning?

Of course you do, you can't just read a textbook and instantly recite back it word for word and there are always things you just suck at. (could be art, timberwork, sports)

Everyone is 'disabled' at something, but for those who've been labelled disabled it's just more obvious.


Also in terms of them being socially awkward and struggle in certain social situations.

Think about yourself

imagine back in your AFC days if you'd been in a social situation where you'd been surrounded by beautiful, loud, girls. You would have been nervous and your behaviour would be very stilted and awkward.

Or imagine going to a party where you know no one.

I've realised that in the end all humans are limited in some capacity and that criticising people for being limited and dis able to do something is completely hypocritical.

So (see short answer)

 

[Atom Smasher]

I absolutely would. A woman with a mentally challenged sibling almost always possess much more patience and empathy than the average woman. She is often much more accepting and adaptable to your own faults or weaknesses because of her lifetime of accepting, loving and helping her sibling.

 

[ladiesman217]

I agree with johnchips. WTF. I've got a special needs sister and it has changed me in MANY ways for the better. If I had a choice, I'd date girls with Special need siblings only. They're sooooo neat!

 

[Who Dares Win]

I absolutely would. A woman with a mentally challenged sibling almost always possess much more patience and empathy than the average woman. She is often much more accepting and adaptable to your own faults or weaknesses because of her lifetime of accepting, loving and helping her sibling.

Short and simple yet complete answer ^^

 

[SoSuave666]

I absolutely would. A woman with a mentally challenged sibling almost always possess much more patience and empathy than the average woman. She is often much more accepting and adaptable to your own faults or weaknesses because of her lifetime of accepting, loving and helping her sibling.

I was thinking the exact same thing but didn't want to say it because I have no real proof/experience with the mentally handicapped. But now that someone else brought it up, I'll cosign.

 

[Gray The Prince]

I don't see why not...

 

[Deep Dish]

Would you date a girl with a mentally challenged sibling or would it deter you?

I'm "mentally challenged," in terms of having Asperger syndrome, and I have two sisters. So naturally I'm the target of your hypothetical question.

Relationships are already complicated enough, so it'd add one more layer of complexity. But every chick causes problems in your life, every sexually desirable chick is somehow crazy, so it's about finding chicks with the least craziness, who solves more problems than she creates. The answer is to take a holistic perspective. How hot is the chick, how caring is she, etc., and how does the sibling's disability challenge your relationship with her? If she solves more problems than she creates, if she causes less problems than other chicks, she may be good to keep around.

 

[headFirst]

Well you know not many guys would say they would. So I guess it makes the girl more available, as bad as that is to say.

 

[AndrewCohen]

It's really very hard to say. Most of people answers in No.