"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Would you date a chick who was in porn? (seriously)

Would or would you not date or Sleep with a girl in porn.

  • O Hell yeah i'll blow her back out like Ron Jeremy!!

    Votes: 23 60.5%
  • hell no!!

    Votes: 15 39.5%

  • Total voters
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Badmannaz

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just visiting from L.A a couple weeks ago i got a chance to go out with my cousins were chillaxin and all, and one ask me

cuz: ayo BM!! lemme ask you a question homie
BM: Was good?
cuz:would you date a girl in porn??
BM:WTF??
Cuz:just awnser the question!!!
BM:umm sh!t I guess if i was attracted to her..
cuz:eek:h ok ok



so im going to EL polo loco with my cousin right off of crenshaw and some other street i can't remember and we meet up with some of his friends couple dudes and like 3 girls one a 6 and the other two 8 and umm i say 7... he introduces me to all of them so were kickin it and about 2 hours later he says..

cuz:hey that's her
BM:who what??
cuz:points) the porn girl!!!

it was the 7 she had a hot body about a 9 big tits and big ass and face was cute..
me being a total fvckin AFC i didn't say anything to her all night...she started talking to me...

HB7:hey
BM:uhh hey
HB7: your such and such cuzzin right??
BM:yeah
HB7:cool..cool

she was kinda near me that whole night and i really didn't talk to her (im a weakass i know) nothing happend with the girl but i did ask her if she was in porn(awaiting a slap in the face) and she got pissed and slapped me in the face but i think if i would have used some skills i probably could have been sleeping with her while in LA. I went searching the internet to see if i could find her and i haven't seen her yet.. o well it was pretty interesting

question is would or wouldn't you date or sleep w/ a girl who was in porn?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Re: Would or would you not date a chick in porn. (seriously)

Originally posted by Badmannaz
just visiting from L.A a couple weeks ago i got a chance to go out with my cousins were chillaxin and all, and one ask me

cuz: ayo BM!! lemme ask you a question homie
BM: Was good?
cuz:would you date a girl in porn??
BM:WTF??
Cuz:just awnser the question!!!
BM:umm sh!t I guess if i was attracted to her..
cuz:eek:h ok ok



so im going to EL polo loco with my cousin right off of crenshaw and some other street i can't remember and we meet up with some of his friends couple dudes and like 3 girls one a 6 and the other two 8 and umm i say 7... he introduces me to all of them so were kickin it and about 2 hours later he says..

cuz:hey that's her
BM:who what??
cuz:points) the porn girl!!!

it was the 7 she had a hot body about a 9 big tits and big ass and face was cute..
me being a total fvckin AFC i didn't say anything to her all night...she started talking to me...

HB7:hey
BM:uhh hey
HB7: your such and such cuzzin right??
BM:yeah
HB7:cool..cool

she was kinda near me that whole night and i really didn't talk to her (im a weakass i know) nothing happend with the girl but i did ask her if she was in porn(awaiting a slap in the face) and she got pissed and slapped me in the face but i think if i would have used some skills i probably could have been sleeping with her while in LA. I went searching the internet to see if i could find her and i haven't seen her yet.. o well it was pretty interesting

question is would or wouldn't you date or sleep w/ a girl who was in porn?
of course i'd bang a porn star. Beats a fat chick, and i've banged them. :confused:

and while in this thread. Wowee. You're really gay. I can't beleive you said chillaxin. maybe its an American thing, which is actually cool over there? -but i can't see how.

Its about the lamest word i've ever head.
 

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well assuming shes clean, not on crack, etc...... i think so

but I know if i was in the porn industry I definitely would not date someone else in the industry

i will be a bit involved with the business aspect of the porn industry pretty soon though :cool:
 

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I have done, a few times, but never again after the last.

It turned into a relationship and it was a big mistake. A gigantic mistake in fact.

I didn't go into it blind. I had good reasons to believe she was worth my time, and still agree with my assessment back then. Didn't help one bit in the end though, it still went wrong.

If you get the opportunity to bang her, by all means go ahead. They're cleaner than your average girl and quite attentive in bed. Leave it at that though. They aren't worth anything more, trust me on this, please do. No matter how unique they seem. I'd almost be willing to pay you to take that advice to heart.

If all you're worried about is her being clapped up... forget that, they're healthier than any girl in a club.
 

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Maybe it just me but I would probaly avoid the whole porn star thing. I'm pretty sure I would have a prob with someone else banging my chick even if it was work.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i could be a FB with her or do a one night stand, but i could never join a relationship with her.

man, you must be reaaaally AFC... how could you shut the fùck up the whole night with a pornstar?!

plus, when she slapped you, you should have answered back... i probably would have slapped her back or said something like 'nasty slut'
 

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Originally posted by nectarine
I have done, a few times, but never again after the last.

It turned into a relationship and it was a big mistake. A gigantic mistake in fact.

I didn't go into it blind. I had good reasons to believe she was worth my time, and still agree with my assessment back then. Didn't help one bit in the end though, it still went wrong.

If you get the opportunity to bang her, by all means go ahead. They're cleaner than your average girl and quite attentive in bed. Leave it at that though. They aren't worth anything more, trust me on this, please do. No matter how unique they seem. I'd almost be willing to pay you to take that advice to heart.

If all you're worried about is her being clapped up... forget that, they're healthier than any girl in a club.
How the hell can a porn star be clean when all they do is suck and **** **** all day long and get blasted in the face or wherever?

No I wouldn't ever **** a porn star.
 

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Because since they suck ****, **** and get blasted in the face all day long, they all make damn sure they're clean. They get tested regularly and provide documents to their employers and agencies to show they are safe to suck and ****. The guys as well, obviously.

Plus, since sex is kinda their living, they tend to be pretty savvy about the details and care about their own wellbeing. Can you say that about the sluts in the club?
 

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I have no probs about it just as long as she's not gonna bang another dude and she's clean. She's no different from a ho you just started dating after she had 2 one night flings within a 6 month period. How is she any different? Oh, cause she was on video, pathetic - same shiat. As long as a girl adores you like a best friend and not like a chump, it's all good considering she has good supposed sex skills.
 

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seriously everybody always say there going to do something on this site and then if a true porn girl was at the end of your bed as you awoke saying "don't talk just whip it out" you'd freeze up like a popsycle..(okay maybe not you'd just get hard and **** her"

but seriously i was kinda shy and i know i'm AFC im trying to get over that..



and while in this thread. Wowee. You're really gay. I can't beleive you said chillaxin. maybe its an American thing, which is actually cool over there? -but i can't see how.
oh and i wouldn't be talking about people's use of words with a Name Like FrEsHuRe

Seriously...if chillaxin was the lamest word the freshure is in another universe:down: :rolleyes: :down:



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Badmannaz
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'd have to be wearing at least 2 industrial strength condoms...
 

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The great sex thing is a myth.

They know how to look hot on camera. You may actually find she's pretty basic when it comes down to it. She may like it that way, after a week of screaming, shouting for more and fake intensity, she may look forward to earnest effort, quiet and warmth.

Then again you may not find that. It is just not a cliche'd gimme that they'll be a great shag.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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this post reminds me of that movie : "The girl next door"

I would not. Who knows what's been jacked up all her holes
 

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Originally posted by nectarine
The great sex thing is a myth.

They know how to look hot on camera. You may actually find she's pretty basic when it comes down to it. She may like it that way, after a week of screaming, shouting for more and fake intensity, she may look forward to earnest effort, quiet and warmth.

Then again you may not find that. It is just not a cliche'd gimme that they'll be a great shag.
stfu noob
 

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You stfu, wishful thinker. You want to believe doing porn equals great sex drive and skills? Is it important to your world-view to think that? Hell, I wouldn't want to mess with your head would I. Bring some experience on the subject to the table or sit down.
 
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