"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Would you date a chick taller than you?

Would you date a chick taller than you?

  • Yes

    Votes: 33 68.8%
  • No

    Votes: 15 31.3%

  • Total voters
    48

Danny21682

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Pretty self-explanatory. The girl I'm thinking of is about my height (5"8) minimum and two inches higher maximum. I Just thought I'd gauge the opinion of the DJs.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mateo_g

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As long as she is attractive, fun to be around, and great in the sack; hell yes.
 

Mizzou-Rah

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I'm in the same position as you. There is a chick maybe 2 inches taller than me that I kind of like, and I'm pretty sure she likes me. However, for some reason I just can't get over the height issue, and I think she may go for guys taller than her (her last bf was like 6'3"). I voted no in the poll, but that could change. I say if it's not an issue to you then go for it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Life-Trainee

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Most definately. I don't know whether it applies to me since I'm 6' 2". Although, i seen leviathan chicks once in a while that top me in height.
 

K Street

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I have. It didn't last long, and she thought I was strange because I always liked it when she made herself taller.
 
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I wouldn't. They'd be too tall then. I prefer chicks small and petite for some reason. Plus I'm 6'3" and have never seen a chick my height or taller. Any of you guys seen a chick that's over 6'3"?
 
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Tall chicks look dorky and their bodily shape is not proportioned well.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr.Fortesque

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LOL! Yesterday I saw soooo tall girl in bus, that I couldn't believe my eyes. I am quite tall, but she was more than one head taller!!! :eek: Face was not so pretty, BUT her azz! So cool tight azz, I haven't never seen. :D
 
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I wanna hear people's reasons for saying "no".
Because I'm already 6'3". A chick TALLER then me would look like a huge freaky biatch. I don't need that circus sh!t. If I was a smaller guy like 5'6" yeah I'd date a chick a couple of inches taller then me.
 

Sir Shags Alot

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I would, I am 6'1 so there aren't many girls taller then me!
 

Mizzou-Rah

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My reason for saying no is basically because I would feel odd being the smaller person in the couple. Whether it is right or wrong, I have the mindset that the man is supposed to be bigger and taller than the woman in the relationship. I'm not really a short guy (I'm 5'10") but I'm not really attracted to girls taller than me for some reason. I prefer smaller girls, maybe because it makes me feel bigger than i am.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Slashco

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I'm 5'11" so there aren't too many girls taller than me, but I wouldn't mind. I think that guys who object to it are insecure, that's just my opinion.
 
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