"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We always hear on sosuave, to "hit the gym" when one wants to improve their looks.

Now this I´m going to suggest, might seem EXTREMELY GAY, I know and I don´t need you to tell me, but hitting the gym in the past was also basically for homos.

Would you use contact lenses to get more chicks?

I don´t know how it is in your countries, but in mine, where most people have dark eyes, people with blue eyes are automatically considered to be beautiful.
Dark eyed women (the majority), love blue/green eyed guys.. Most hot chicks I know, only dated guys with blue eyes, it´s almost ridiculous to see that all their ex´s and currents were blue eyed. It couldn´t be a coincidence since they are a minority.

Also I don´t know any guy with great eyes with problems getting women.
I used to have a friend where women just stumbled upon him telling how great he looked and his eyes.... believe me that the guy with sunglasses was very ugly...Women have always that sh*t about eyes being the window of the soul, or "I got lost in his eyes", I´m sure you´ve heard that.... women are obsessed with great eyes, it´s like boobs or ass for us.

I don´t know if the same happens in america, england or any other country where most people have blue eyes.
But I can guarantee you, that in brazil,mexico, portugal, spain, italy,greece etc... a guy with blue eyes attracts women in a way that is really hard to watch for other guys.

So, if the goal here is to get more women, and having great eyes can do that for you, would you do it?

This topic isn´t about game, yes for sure game also works, but these guys, many of them don´t even need to open their mouth to make women drool....

Edit: Think about three (super) hot chicks you know, and try to remember their ex´s or guys they are dating.. most probably they had great eyes. Things really started to make sense for me when I noticed this, that even guys that had ugly faces with hot girls, many of them had great eyes...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yes. Get the yellow ones like Darth Maul. Those are cool:)
 

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i fully endorse this thread coz eversince i started wearing red contacts, i've been getting laid like a rockstar.:cool:

red contact lens on=panties off......its simple mathematics, really.
 

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teacha said:
i fully endorse this thread coz eversince i started wearing red contacts, i've been getting laid like a rockstar.:cool:

red contact lens on=panties off......its simple mathematics, really.
It´s really funny, cause it seems to be different and or appealing eyes makes women melt. Far more powerful than a tan, or muscles...

I remember seeing a video of a guy on youtube, and he was talking with his computer in front of his face... and the light of the screen made his eyes look purple, and all the idiotic women were saying he is gorgeous with his "purple" eyes!
 

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Pink ones are also good! Girls love pink, so that means they'll love you!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Huffman said:
Pink ones are also good! Girls love pink, so that means they'll love you!
I've been wearing pink contact lenses since 2009 which is coincidentally the number of women I've had sex with in that period of time. It must be the pink!
 

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lol, you guys are funny... But this is supposed to be serious, it´s alright you think that game and muscles are the only thing that matters.. Just don´t feel like crap, when a guy with great blue or green eyes comes and gets in a second the girl you´ve been chasing for years..

For instance Jesse Williams from grey´s anatomy, Rihanna loves him, if you watch any video of him on youtube, you can feel girls orgasming just by their comments..... and the guy is a monkey!

http://www.purepeople.com/media/jesse-williams_m273433

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZLlWJ9zj2eQ

If this monkey, suddenly is considered gorgeous just by his eyes, I think that no matter how ugly you think you are, you can become a greek god in women´s eyes, just by changing yours...
 

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You're thinking too much. Stop it.

On a side note, I'm looking to buy either purple or blue contacts with my prescription, and wear one colored contact and keep the other eye green.
 

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I have ridiculous blue eyes. I get compliments ALL the time.

Spanish women LOVE me. Seriously, I absolutely clean up with spanish women. They get wet at the thought of having a spanish child with blue eyes.. it's ridiculous.

I remember I was seeing this incredible spanish girl, hot as ****, sex was great. She jokingly said a major reason she ****ed me was because of my blue eyes. One night we were out and I told her I had to tell her something very important. I told her I used colored contacts and my eyes were really brown. She about ****.

Oh, and if you do this. Prepare for embarrassment when they call you out on it.
 

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I say stick with the hand you were dealt. There's no reason why you need colored contacts. All it's going to do is cause problems. It would be like a bald man getting a toupee. Eventually the person you meet or are with will find out. Better off just working on your game because then you could have orange eyes and it wouldnt matter.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't see a problem with it depending on what you want. If you are just going for a 1-night lay/PUAing in a club, I would just see this as a form of "peacocking", otherwise I wouldn't wear contact lenses just because it seems very superficial to me. At the end of the day, you can't change your eye colour, and if you think that's what is holding you back from getting women, then something isn't clicking.
 

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CantTouchMyStyle said:
I have ridiculous blue eyes. I get compliments ALL the time.

Spanish women LOVE me. Seriously, I absolutely clean up with spanish women. They get wet at the thought of having a spanish child with blue eyes.. it's ridiculous.

I remember I was seeing this incredible spanish girl, hot as ****, sex was great. She jokingly said a major reason she ****ed me was because of my blue eyes. One night we were out and I told her I had to tell her something very important. I told her I used colored contacts and my eyes were really brown. She about ****.

Oh, and if you do this. Prepare for embarrassment when they call you out on it.
Huh? More Spanish have blue eyes than Americans. Please don't confuse Mexicans and the Spanish. That is like comparing a homeless man to a man in Beverly Hills.
 

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Huh? More Spanish have blue eyes than Americans. Please don't confuse Mexicans and the Spanish. That is like comparing a homeless man to a man in Beverly Hills.
Hahaha. Only post I read in here. Spanish people look just like white people lmao.
 

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OP, you say having blue eyes is attractive to women from your country? Well get some blue contacts and see for yourself! :rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CantTouchMyStyle said:
I have ridiculous blue eyes. I get compliments ALL the time.

Spanish women LOVE me. Seriously, I absolutely clean up with spanish women. They get wet at the thought of having a spanish child with blue eyes.. it's ridiculous.

I remember I was seeing this incredible spanish girl, hot as ****, sex was great. She jokingly said a major reason she ****ed me was because of my blue eyes. One night we were out and I told her I had to tell her something very important. I told her I used colored contacts and my eyes were really brown. She about ****.

Oh, and if you do this. Prepare for embarrassment when they call you out on it.
Exactly, from my experience when super hot women, find a guy with great eyes, they are no longer picky.... they get instantly wet... Of course many women love dark eyes, and of course you don´t need light eyes to be considered attractive, but let me tell you, that light eyes simply hypnotise many women, women may use "very handsome" or "very cute" for a guy with nice face, but these guys are all "drop dead gorgeous" , they just look silly staring at blue eyes.. The 3 or 4 hottest girls I´ve known (now they are fat pigs), but any way, had 2-3 boyfriends in their lives... all with blue eyes.
 

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I used to wear grey contacts all the time (I have brown eyes)...I got compliments like crazy from women.
 

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bish0p said:
I used to wear grey contacts all the time (I have brown eyes)...I got compliments like crazy from women.
More one, thanks, it´s crazy indeed.. Most of my friends don´t notice that though... it seems they are completly alienated. For many women,you are only considered to be attractive if you have great eyes.... this explains a lot of why it´s far more easy for women to be considered attractive than men...

I also forgot to tell a story, of a guy who had been chasing this girl for a while without any results. One summer he got a pair of blue contacts, and she fell in love with him, it could be a coincidence although I really doubt it.

This could be a very effective quick solution to get more women, of course it brings some few problems: 1)it´s fake 2) many people would consider you gay 3) people who already know you might comment a lot on that. But in the end we rule our one lives...
 

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And...

4. It's not genuine. God gave you the eyes you've got. Be yourself. It's not that big a deal.
 

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4. It's not genuine. God gave you the eyes you've got. Be yourself. It's not that big a deal.
Sorry, but I cannot agree on that. It might be a "drastic" change on your looks but people will get accostumed to your new you. And if I were myself, I would still be an AFC, shy etc... and a lot of other characteristics that are bad for getting women.

I could be giving more credit to great eyes, than they deserve, and I could be wrong. But from my experience, blue/green eyes are a real deal breaker, more powerful than anything else getting women. If you live in a nordic country, or USA, where blue eyes are much common, you might not find this phenomena. But in countries with dark eyed people.... it seems blue eyed guys, have the best women anytime without any effort, and 90% of the best looking women only date these guys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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