"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would You Consider This Cheating?

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Lets say you are dating this chic. You decide that you don't like her attitude and decide to wait for the right moment to drop the bomb on her. The right moment is not exactly now because she requested her vacation to coincide with yours just so she could spend more time with you but you know you about to drop the bomb on her soon anyway. You are planning to do it at the end of the vacation.

Now, lets say, in the meanwhile you bang this other chic on Thursday while using protection, of course) then on Saturday you routinely bang the chic you are planning to break up with soon then on the following day, you finally break up with her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yes...also the fact that you slept with your gf knowing you were going to break up with her a few days later shows lack of character.
 

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window said:
yes...also the fact that you slept with your gf knowing you were going to break up with her a few days later shows lack of character.

Lets say she wanted it really bad and you didn't want to deprive her?

Can I get some more opinions here?
 

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Women do this kind of **** when they swing braches. I have no sympathy for them.

Is it cheating? It dosen't matter- you're dumping her anyway. The only context that matters is if you want to keep her and you get caught. This is, incidentally, also how many women view cheating fyi.
 

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Aenigma said:
Women do this kind of **** when they swing braches. I have no sympathy for them.

Is it cheating? It dosen't matter- you're dumping her anyway. The only context that matters is if you want to keep her and you get caught. This is, incidentally, also how many women view cheating fyi.
Who the fukk cares?

Do you think the woman cares about how you feel? Hell no.

The only thing she gives a rats ass about is ensuring her emotional security.

Women have no sense of honor, dignity, obligation, etc.
Do whatever you feel is right for you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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STR8UP said:
Who the fukk cares?

Do you think the woman cares about how you feel? Hell no.

The only thing she gives a rats ass about is ensuring her emotional security.

Women have no sense of honor, dignity, obligation, etc.
Do whatever you feel is right for you.

Exactly.

To quote Estar Vilar

Masculinity and Honor is an Artifical System designed to manipulate men

It is simple to analyse this vicious circle: women invent rules, manipulate men to obey them and so dominate the male sex. Of course, these rules in no way apply to women themselves. The male sense of honour, for example, is a system invented by women who loudly exempt themselves from it. They renounce the concept of honour and, as a result, manipulate men.

Women are like hypocritical thieves who object to stealing- they have no problem doing it themselves, but they're furious if someone does it to them.
 

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Aenigma said:
Exactly.

To quote Estar Vilar

Masculinity and Honor is an Artifical System designed to manipulate men

It is simple to analyse this vicious circle: women invent rules, manipulate men to obey them and so dominate the male sex. Of course, these rules in no way apply to women themselves. The male sense of honour, for example, is a system invented by women who loudly exempt themselves from it. They renounce the concept of honour and, as a result, manipulate men.

Women are like hypocritical thieves who object to stealing- they have no problem doing it themselves, but they're furious if someone does it to them.

LOVE IT!
 

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I've had his saved under my "interesting files" for quite sometime- waiting for the right moment. From the comments section on menarebetterthanwomen.com, bolding is mine.

My dad told me about 2 years before he died that every woman will cheat. He told me this after I told him my wife of 9 years was the most honest woman and true woman I could ever hope for. He said just a little attention from someone else is all a woman needs. They will tell themselves it’s alright to cheat because their spouse wasn’t saying or acting out things they wanted at THAT time. So, it makes it alright at THAT time to cheat. That makes it justifiable to them. Well we aren’t together now and his words were true.


wolfe (405) Says:

July 24th, 2006 at 9:50 pm - IP Man-Hash: 76cebfba7c181
Sorry to hear that Joecam. I certainly think your Dad was sadly right. Welcome to the site. Look around; hope you find what you see useful and enjoyable.
-wolfe

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July 25th, 2006 at 5:21 am - IP Man-Hash: ecdf74e99275a
Thanks wolfe, yeah it is sad he was right. I’m not posting for the first time to just bash women. I love women as do alot of men here and just had to vent. Justifiable adultry is crazy. In the course of the first year of marriage I was approached by one of my best friends’ wife to fool around (being polite here). Her husband was also my boss. She approached me in a quiet manner, with the plan of being totally descreet. I of course loving my wife turned her down. Feeling kinda guilty since I had never lied to the woman I had been with for 3 years (dated 2 years before marriage), I told her of the approach. She didn’t get upset or angry and that bothered me, so I confronted her about it. She said she trusted me and didn’t really find it to be hurtful to our marriage. But later I realized why she didn’t REALLY get upset.




Additionally, all women look for a plan "B". It's just a fact. Their choice in men sucks as does their choices in everything else, so naturally they look for 2 men one that is "stable" and takes "care" of her (definition of a Mangina). Some women could refer to me as a "male *****" but at least I'm decent enough to make it very clear that I have more than one sexual partner and you'll never be my only one. Point made, point should be taken but even if it's not your opion is noted and overruled.


As if a woman could actually be offended. They have no priciples or values that were not expressly told to them by a man. It’s not being offended so much as it’s a sham and an act. Just like everything else women can “be”.

-****
My thoughts-

1. Women will always find someway rationalize something that they want to do.

2. Most women don't find a need to rationalize what they want to do- that they want to do it is justification enough in their minds.
 

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Aenigma said:
My thoughts-

1. Women will always find someway rationalize something that they want to do.

2. Most women don't find a need to rationalize what they want to do- that they want to do it is justification enough in their minds.
See also: my signature.
 
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