"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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would you consider plastic surgery?

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if someone offered to pay for it, for example, would you get a nose job, or something similar?

i have a pretty big nose, and was thinking of getting some work done, i just wonder what kind of response i can expect form people who knew me all my life... and if i'll like what it looks like after.. or want to go back
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It will always be in the back of your mind that somebody pretty much gave you thousands of dollars for this. You will always have a sense of debt even though they may not ask you to pay them back. Plastic surgery is not like somebody lending you a couple hundred bucks for a down payment on a car. Its a lot of money. This is just my opinion i have never borrowed from anyone and hate owning money/debt in general. A lot of people wouldn't have qualms about getting such gifts/borrowing large amounts but I personally would feel wrong.

I wouldn't take it. But if there was a slim chance of taking such a gift it would have to be from my own family not from someone outside my family.
 

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^I'm starting to wonder if that's what I have. I'm a fat lazy fück now so naturally moobs just kind of come with the beer gut, but I weighed about 115 ten years ago and the tïts still looked disproportionate. You could see every rib in my ribcage but somehow I was still a solid A cup.

A friend of mine who had gynecomastia surgery years ago assured me I didn't have it, but after googling some images, I'm not so sure.
 

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I kind of feel like a retard sitting here fondling myself, but I can't really tell. Should it be pretty obvious or is it something you really have to know what you're looking for? I guess what I'm asking is do I need a professional to figure out if I have it?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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May be I should have rephrased.

If money wasn't a problem, would you get plastic surgery?


Or anyone here HAD one?
 

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I had it done. made a significant improvement in my looks. But like anything, if you accept a favor, you are indebted. When you go to the dr... tell him you have labored breathing, especially at night. IF he finds a deviated septum, the hospitalization and operating rm charges are covered by insurance. So all thats left if the "cosmetic" end of the procedure. then cut a payment plan w/ dr.
 

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Plastic surgery would only be worthwhile if it resulted in much more pvssy. Women are generally less concerned with looks than men. A good looking man is guaranteed to get attention from homosexual men, but not from women.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The only kind of cosmetic surgery I could ever see getting is Lasik on my eyes, and maybe some laser hair removal. Other than that, I'm fvcking smoking hot...:whistle:
 
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