"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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would you consider plastic surgery?

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if someone offered to pay for it, for example, would you get a nose job, or something similar?

i have a pretty big nose, and was thinking of getting some work done, i just wonder what kind of response i can expect form people who knew me all my life... and if i'll like what it looks like after.. or want to go back
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It will always be in the back of your mind that somebody pretty much gave you thousands of dollars for this. You will always have a sense of debt even though they may not ask you to pay them back. Plastic surgery is not like somebody lending you a couple hundred bucks for a down payment on a car. Its a lot of money. This is just my opinion i have never borrowed from anyone and hate owning money/debt in general. A lot of people wouldn't have qualms about getting such gifts/borrowing large amounts but I personally would feel wrong.

I wouldn't take it. But if there was a slim chance of taking such a gift it would have to be from my own family not from someone outside my family.
 
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^I'm starting to wonder if that's what I have. I'm a fat lazy fück now so naturally moobs just kind of come with the beer gut, but I weighed about 115 ten years ago and the tïts still looked disproportionate. You could see every rib in my ribcage but somehow I was still a solid A cup.

A friend of mine who had gynecomastia surgery years ago assured me I didn't have it, but after googling some images, I'm not so sure.
 
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I kind of feel like a retard sitting here fondling myself, but I can't really tell. Should it be pretty obvious or is it something you really have to know what you're looking for? I guess what I'm asking is do I need a professional to figure out if I have it?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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May be I should have rephrased.

If money wasn't a problem, would you get plastic surgery?


Or anyone here HAD one?
 
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I had it done. made a significant improvement in my looks. But like anything, if you accept a favor, you are indebted. When you go to the dr... tell him you have labored breathing, especially at night. IF he finds a deviated septum, the hospitalization and operating rm charges are covered by insurance. So all thats left if the "cosmetic" end of the procedure. then cut a payment plan w/ dr.
 
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Plastic surgery would only be worthwhile if it resulted in much more pvssy. Women are generally less concerned with looks than men. A good looking man is guaranteed to get attention from homosexual men, but not from women.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The only kind of cosmetic surgery I could ever see getting is Lasik on my eyes, and maybe some laser hair removal. Other than that, I'm fvcking smoking hot...:whistle:
 
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