Tictac
Banned
Treat all women the same. That way you won't stutter like a teenager or be tempted to 'not playing by the rules'.
Pedestals are for dopes.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Would you call her out on disrespect in the stage of dating?
- Thread starter summersky
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Pedestals are for dopes.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Got an update.. She wanted to come to my place and spend the night. Few days before she asked me if i want to have sex with her. I said that i just want to spend time with her and I dont think about things like that. The day before she told me, she would come but wont spend the night. I said that it doesnt make sense to come to my place for a few hours. She agreed. Then i said we can spend time at here place instead of mine. She said she doesnt know.. Then i hung up. Thats it. She is not f**king interested but act as she is. Next.
Am happy about any comments.
Regards!
Am happy about any comments.
Regards!
I'm not really following what's going on here, but umm... what? Does she have aids?
OP
1) You think too much! Your higher level brain functions are overriding your lower level brain functions that responsible for successful physical actions. Stop thinking! You job is to get a date and see if the hormones kick in. Your very smart brain is killing the hormones on both sides of the table. The physical is low level autopilot stiff. Let it go! Let it do it's job!
2) You care way too much. I just came out of a relationship with a crazy BPD girl and now attractive normal woman seem so boring. I do some online dating right now. One very attractive girl is 10 years younger than me. I decided after the 1st date I wasn't going to see her again. Too many issues, not a citizen, could move back to Argentina any moment, has a 4-year-old daughter. But she keeps texting me and let's me know she wants to go out with me. So I date her. She's very attractive. Every date I act like it will be the last, which seems to make her more attracted to me. I have another woman 4 years younger than me that when I told her I was too busy, told me she hoped we would go out soon. She is georgous, but I don't care and that makes these woman more interested. Stop caring.
Get a date, if after 1 to 3 dates, nothing happens move on. You are wasting your valuable resources with this one.
1) You think too much! Your higher level brain functions are overriding your lower level brain functions that responsible for successful physical actions. Stop thinking! You job is to get a date and see if the hormones kick in. Your very smart brain is killing the hormones on both sides of the table. The physical is low level autopilot stiff. Let it go! Let it do it's job!
2) You care way too much. I just came out of a relationship with a crazy BPD girl and now attractive normal woman seem so boring. I do some online dating right now. One very attractive girl is 10 years younger than me. I decided after the 1st date I wasn't going to see her again. Too many issues, not a citizen, could move back to Argentina any moment, has a 4-year-old daughter. But she keeps texting me and let's me know she wants to go out with me. So I date her. She's very attractive. Every date I act like it will be the last, which seems to make her more attracted to me. I have another woman 4 years younger than me that when I told her I was too busy, told me she hoped we would go out soon. She is georgous, but I don't care and that makes these woman more interested. Stop caring.
Get a date, if after 1 to 3 dates, nothing happens move on. You are wasting your valuable resources with this one.
I know that I am thinking too much and I got a little desperate with that woman. The last time I went NC, I heard from her after a few days. This time 5 days went by and there is nothing. Guess her attraction to me is very low due to acting desperate and pushy. But I really like her and the dates were so so good. We were all over each other. She canceled two times in a row now. The last time was what I wrote about, that she was like she doesnt know.. Dont really know how to proceed with this chick. Is there a chance?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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There's a chance.
grayclif
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If you use this make sure you quickly change the subject. Just so she doesn't analyze this heap of BS.