Obviously there will be different opinions from women, but I heard this on the radio and wondered what other guys thought.
Guy calls in, and is trying to figure out what to do about his problem with his girlfriend. They have been dating for over a year, and here is the problem...
The guy says that when they are both in bed and asleep, that she is dreaming about an ex-boyfriend. The guys says that his woman is calling out his name in her dreams, and its more than once, and happens often.
Girl tells the radio people (while the boyfriend is on the phone too) that she has no idea it is even happening, and that she has no control over it. She says she doesn't even think of the guy at all.
So as a guy, you have to decide what to do. Do you break up with her because she cant quit? Will it go away like other dreams do? Most the time when I have dreams of the sort they go away.
I may notice this girl I work with, interact, and since she is one of the last people I see at night, and she interests me, sometimes they pop up in my dreams. In a non sexual way, but they are always around. But as time goes by I stop having them.
Its kind of like... WTF was that dream about? I have those on occasion where I have a dream about people I went to school with 12yrs ago. They come out of know where, never seen them since, never dated them, just knew them. They weren't on my mind, nor did I think about them. Just one night they were in a dream.
Now I know we cant control some of them, and at the same time too, they say that the last thing you think about before you go to bed, or is on your mind you may dream about. Yep, that girl at work last night was the last female I spoke too, and she was on my mind, and when I went to bed last night she ended up in a dream.
But my question is, as a guy... would you break up with your woman if she did what the one above did, or would you live with it and see if it went away? I'm sure every person is different, but at the same time it was a person in her life who she was with.
Must suck for the guy when he gets awaken by her mumbling an ex boyfriends name. Now I remember most of my dreams, and she says she doesn't recall. Maybe she is playing stupid, but who knows.
Personally, I think if it happened over and over, and NEVER stopped, i'd have to end the relationship. I dont know if therapy works or anything else, but if not, I dont think ANY GUY wants to hear a woman speaking some other dudes name in their sleep, ESPECIALLY if it is an ex.
Guy calls in, and is trying to figure out what to do about his problem with his girlfriend. They have been dating for over a year, and here is the problem...
The guy says that when they are both in bed and asleep, that she is dreaming about an ex-boyfriend. The guys says that his woman is calling out his name in her dreams, and its more than once, and happens often.
Girl tells the radio people (while the boyfriend is on the phone too) that she has no idea it is even happening, and that she has no control over it. She says she doesn't even think of the guy at all.
So as a guy, you have to decide what to do. Do you break up with her because she cant quit? Will it go away like other dreams do? Most the time when I have dreams of the sort they go away.
I may notice this girl I work with, interact, and since she is one of the last people I see at night, and she interests me, sometimes they pop up in my dreams. In a non sexual way, but they are always around. But as time goes by I stop having them.
Its kind of like... WTF was that dream about? I have those on occasion where I have a dream about people I went to school with 12yrs ago. They come out of know where, never seen them since, never dated them, just knew them. They weren't on my mind, nor did I think about them. Just one night they were in a dream.
Now I know we cant control some of them, and at the same time too, they say that the last thing you think about before you go to bed, or is on your mind you may dream about. Yep, that girl at work last night was the last female I spoke too, and she was on my mind, and when I went to bed last night she ended up in a dream.
But my question is, as a guy... would you break up with your woman if she did what the one above did, or would you live with it and see if it went away? I'm sure every person is different, but at the same time it was a person in her life who she was with.
Must suck for the guy when he gets awaken by her mumbling an ex boyfriends name. Now I remember most of my dreams, and she says she doesn't recall. Maybe she is playing stupid, but who knows.
Personally, I think if it happened over and over, and NEVER stopped, i'd have to end the relationship. I dont know if therapy works or anything else, but if not, I dont think ANY GUY wants to hear a woman speaking some other dudes name in their sleep, ESPECIALLY if it is an ex.
