"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Would you bother with an attractive woman if she's super selfish?

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Cremasta said:
This came to mind
http://www.ratemymotivational.com/1...ht_now_somebody_somewhere_is_tired_of_putting

The short answer is no. I've had selfish gf's in the past and they do nothing but annoy you, your family and friends.

It might be worth sticking it out with her for a few months till you get bored with the sex. Plus you'll work out the kind of girl you DON'T want in the future.
I agree he should stick it out, only for a few months, if she is responding to him, then she have interest, like you said she is just self absorbed but dude is doing something different from the bunch, and she likes that, just don't turn afc cause she is hot, keep her as a plate and enjoy having her as arm candy, just talk to her every three days, stop hitting her up every other day, you will only feed her ego.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like she isn't that interested and is sort of just keeping you at arm's reach for the attention. I've had this happen before and it leads no where.
Chicks of all levels of hotness do this to men because in the back of her mind, the guy is a backup. It'll suck the life out of you if you let it.

If you get an opportunity to get it in, take it. Because that opportunity will never come around again.

If you don't get that opportunity, move on and move on quickly.

The hottest girl in the world isn't going to change your life or make you any happier. Especially if she's selfish.
 

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You guys are tripping, she is interested, especially if she is responding to his text and calls.

A lot of beautiful women, are short with guys in text messages, that's why it's really better to call them to meet up, and don't text at all, I'm learning now you text to bull**** with plates that are average, but with the hotties you call them to meet or set-up dates, and don't text them at all, texting will make things go boring fast and will ruin you.

OP she is interested, but you have to play chess with this girl, don't follow your feelings, do everything opposite of the average guy, and you will win. The second date is the make or break, it will let you know everything, if she goes out with you second date she has high interest, once you guys are done with the second date, I wouldn't contact her until a week later bro. Third date should be at house, and you should know the rest.
 

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Text messages kill relationships. If texting didn't exist would you have this problem? NO. You would think "had a great time with her, she likes me, can't wait til next time".

Not "oh fuuck she sent me a short text message". Stop over-analyzing. I used to be like this and it killed so many potential plates.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
You guys are tripping, she is interested, especially if she is responding to his text and calls.

A lot of beautiful women, are short with guys in text messages, that's why it's really better to call them to meet up, and don't text at all, I'm learning now you text to bull**** with plates that are average, but with the hotties you call them to meet or set-up dates, and don't text them at all, texting will make things go boring fast and will ruin you.

OP she is interested, but you have to play chess with this girl, don't follow your feelings, do everything opposite of the average guy, and you will win. The second date is the make or break, it will let you know everything, if she goes out with you second date she has high interest, once you guys are done with the second date, I wouldn't contact her until a week later bro. Third date should be at house, and you should know the rest.

Maybe i am unique, but women who are interested in me ask plenty of questions or say happy sounding crap in text messages and use smileycons....this girl could be trying to not act over interested and really like him, but it looks like semi LI to me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There's really nothing else to say. If she's self-absorbed, drop her. She should act enthusiastic about seeing you. If not, she's not worth the effort. And stop using text messages.

Quit overthinking and worrying and trying to come up with strategies. When you find a woman who is enthusiastic about you and looking forward to spending time with you, you'll know.
 

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nroug7 said:
She just admitted she was a slut but put up a barrier before admitting it.
Stupidity is rampant these days.
Oh yes, Im a slut because I like sex.
I would consider someone a slut who gives sex away easy, which I def do not. 90% of the men on the site would stop seeing me after the first few dates because I dont put out that early

You guys love the sluts. How ironic
 
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