"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A friend of mine thats always taken my side just disrespected me and made me really mad. I dont know if i should be mad about this or not? I was away sleeping i get up to check my computer. I have messages from her saying.(shes bi i guess?) I saw your ex gf at frys, she looked really hot for once and i would **** her for sure. That really pissed me off, since my ex gf ****ed me over alot. Is this wierd for me to be mad?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i dont get whats there to be mad about... she just said that she thought your ex was Hot and wouldnt mind sleeping with her... nothing to get pissed over.... =/

almost all girls these days are bi, i know alot of girls that say they wouldnt mind sleeping with a girl, but she has to be really hot.....
Girls do find other girls attractive , and now that people are more acceptable to the girl + girl issue more girls seem to be open about it.... i think its just awesome that girls are bi.... ive even had some girls saying they would do a threesome if the other girl was really hot.... =)

but as i said before i dont understand what ur getting mad about...
 

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Originally posted by Morphiex
i dont get whats there to be mad about... she just said that she thought your ex was Hot and wouldnt mind sleeping with her... nothing to get pissed over.... =/

almost all girls these days are bi, i know alot of girls that say they wouldnt mind sleeping with a girl, but she has to be really hot.....
Girls do find other girls attractive , and now that people are more acceptable to the girl + girl issue more girls seem to be open about it.... i think its just awesome that girls are bi.... ive even had some girls saying they would do a threesome if the other girl was really hot.... =)

but as i said before i dont understand what ur getting mad about...
I duno i think its disrespectful to say it to me. if she thinks my ex is hot she can keep it to herself. Especially all the bull**** i went with over her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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man she just said she looks Hot....

not like she said ur dummb to brake up with her and i really like your exand am gonan have a rlt with ehr.... she just said she looked hot for once.....
its not like she said anything to hurt you or sumthing, if ur gonna put a strain on your friendship because of that then u have a bigger issue then simple stupid irrational anger......

Just say cool and move on....
 

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Originally posted by Morphiex
man she just said she looks Hot....

not like she said ur dummb to brake up with her and i really like your exand am gonan have a rlt with ehr.... she just said she looked hot for once.....
its not like she said anything to hurt you or sumthing, if ur gonna put a strain on your friendship because of that then u have a bigger issue then simple stupid irrational anger......

Just say cool and move on....
i duno man i do have a testy temper. I just thought it seemed disrespectful to me.
 

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if u really feel that dissed by that small comment then u should go ask your friend if she meant any harm by saying what she said....

Even though we all know that she didnt mean any dissrespect and just told u that she was looking good , and she even typed " FOR ONCE" to diss her, and said that she looked so good that she would also have ****ed her.....

but as i said if u really feel that dissed by that comment u should just ask her about it cuz its bad for you to be walking around and feeling all pissed not good for you and not good for people around you.....
 

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Originally posted by Morphiex
if u really feel that dissed by that small comment then u should go ask your friend if she meant any harm by saying what she said....

Even though we all know that she didnt mean any dissrespect and just told u that she was looking good , and she even typed " FOR ONCE" to diss her, and said that she looked so good that she would also have ****ed her.....

but as i said if u really feel that dissed by that comment u should just ask her about it cuz its bad for you to be walking around and feeling all pissed not good for you and not good for people around you.....
yeah word man
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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