"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A friend of mine thats always taken my side just disrespected me and made me really mad. I dont know if i should be mad about this or not? I was away sleeping i get up to check my computer. I have messages from her saying.(shes bi i guess?) I saw your ex gf at frys, she looked really hot for once and i would **** her for sure. That really pissed me off, since my ex gf ****ed me over alot. Is this wierd for me to be mad?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i dont get whats there to be mad about... she just said that she thought your ex was Hot and wouldnt mind sleeping with her... nothing to get pissed over.... =/

almost all girls these days are bi, i know alot of girls that say they wouldnt mind sleeping with a girl, but she has to be really hot.....
Girls do find other girls attractive , and now that people are more acceptable to the girl + girl issue more girls seem to be open about it.... i think its just awesome that girls are bi.... ive even had some girls saying they would do a threesome if the other girl was really hot.... =)

but as i said before i dont understand what ur getting mad about...
 

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Originally posted by Morphiex
i dont get whats there to be mad about... she just said that she thought your ex was Hot and wouldnt mind sleeping with her... nothing to get pissed over.... =/

almost all girls these days are bi, i know alot of girls that say they wouldnt mind sleeping with a girl, but she has to be really hot.....
Girls do find other girls attractive , and now that people are more acceptable to the girl + girl issue more girls seem to be open about it.... i think its just awesome that girls are bi.... ive even had some girls saying they would do a threesome if the other girl was really hot.... =)

but as i said before i dont understand what ur getting mad about...
I duno i think its disrespectful to say it to me. if she thinks my ex is hot she can keep it to herself. Especially all the bull**** i went with over her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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man she just said she looks Hot....

not like she said ur dummb to brake up with her and i really like your exand am gonan have a rlt with ehr.... she just said she looked hot for once.....
its not like she said anything to hurt you or sumthing, if ur gonna put a strain on your friendship because of that then u have a bigger issue then simple stupid irrational anger......

Just say cool and move on....
 

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Originally posted by Morphiex
man she just said she looks Hot....

not like she said ur dummb to brake up with her and i really like your exand am gonan have a rlt with ehr.... she just said she looked hot for once.....
its not like she said anything to hurt you or sumthing, if ur gonna put a strain on your friendship because of that then u have a bigger issue then simple stupid irrational anger......

Just say cool and move on....
i duno man i do have a testy temper. I just thought it seemed disrespectful to me.
 

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if u really feel that dissed by that small comment then u should go ask your friend if she meant any harm by saying what she said....

Even though we all know that she didnt mean any dissrespect and just told u that she was looking good , and she even typed " FOR ONCE" to diss her, and said that she looked so good that she would also have ****ed her.....

but as i said if u really feel that dissed by that comment u should just ask her about it cuz its bad for you to be walking around and feeling all pissed not good for you and not good for people around you.....
 

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Originally posted by Morphiex
if u really feel that dissed by that small comment then u should go ask your friend if she meant any harm by saying what she said....

Even though we all know that she didnt mean any dissrespect and just told u that she was looking good , and she even typed " FOR ONCE" to diss her, and said that she looked so good that she would also have ****ed her.....

but as i said if u really feel that dissed by that comment u should just ask her about it cuz its bad for you to be walking around and feeling all pissed not good for you and not good for people around you.....
yeah word man
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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