Would you be mad if GF likes a pic of a guy she had sex with?

[Desdinova]

Let's say a guy (who your GF was once involved with not too long ago-- relationship or FWB) posts a selfie and she Likes it.

Then she's permanently situated as a fvck buddy and nothing more. This woman shouldn't be rewarded with exclusivity because she's a piece of 5hit who remains in contact with her ex-BFs

 

[Glassguy]

Doesn't answer my question

Have you banged this chick?

And everyone has answered your question. In every thread you've started about this same situation.

 

[randalljohnson]

Have you banged this chick?

And everyone has answered your question. In every thread you've started about this same situation.

Yes, I've banged my girlfriend before

I just ask because some people say it's an issue, some people say I'm out of mind for "overanalyzing" a Like on social media

 

[randalljohnson]

Then she's permanently situated as a fvck buddy and nothing more. This woman shouldn't be rewarded with exclusivity because she's a piece of 5hit who remains in contact with her ex-BFs

This particular guy isn't an ex of hers, he's a FWB. Obviously we got into a relationship, so the "benefits" between them (and her other FWBs) ended

 

[Desdinova]

This particular guy isn't an ex of hers, he's a FWB

So he's an ex-FWB instead of an ex-BF. Their c0cks have ventured into the same hole. Please feel free to explain the difference.

 

[Glassguy]

Without feeding the troll, I believe the ex FWB is even worse because at some point he cut her off and that made him worth chasing.

Unsettled business if you will. When you treat a girl as a FWB, you can ALWAYS get her coming back around if she isnt (or sometimes even if she is) in a relationship.

Women want what they cant have and with at fwb situation, women get emotionally attached and start thinking what it would be like in a relationship with the guy. Especially if he fvcked her right.

As an ex bf, its more of a "we tried and it didnt work" situation and women are not so much on a string with the ex bf anymore.

I dont have an old fwb in my phone contacts that I could get over tonight if I wanted. Not being c0cky, just the way it is.

 

[Glassguy]

Yes, I've banged my girlfriend before

I just ask because some people say it's an issue, some people say I'm out of mind for "overanalyzing" a Like on social media

And to deal with you- the wording "I've banged her before" leads me to believe that you arent banging it consistently as one would in a knowing relationship, which tells me that you are probably looking at her as your gf and she is looking at you completely differently (as in not a bf).

I think she could hit you over the head with a hammer and you would swear it was a pillow to keep in good graces.

You have no self worth so you allow people to run over you. That is because you tell people how to treat you based on your actions and even being action-less in your situation.

You come across on here as creepy, stalker-ish, completely insecure and jealous. I can only imagine how you come across to women.

Here is a tip- women...ALL WOMEN....want a guy that they have to work for. Some like the nice guys who roll over at first, then they fvck them over for a guy that requires them to chase. You will never get anywhere with women long term acting the way you do. You are too caught up on one to have any scarcity and require a woman to put forth effort to being with you.

You need to take a long, hard look in the mirror and realize that if you do not change your behavior now, you will never reap the benefits that so many of us now do, thanks to changing our behavior after realizing our own shortfalls.

 

[randalljohnson]

So he's an ex-FWB instead of an ex-BF. Their c0cks have ventured into the same hole. Please feel free to explain the difference.

I just didn't know if there was a difference between Liking an ex-FWB picture and Liking an ex-BFs picture. I figure an Ex-FWB is relegated to being "just a friend now" once you're in a relationship with somebody else, so I question the significance of Liking his picture

I'm not sure if they're still in contact, I don't believe so

 

[randalljohnson]

And to deal with you- the wording "I've banged her before" leads me to believe that you arent banging it consistently as one would in a knowing relationship, which tells me that you are probably looking at her as your gf and she is looking at you completely differently (as in not a bf).

I think she could hit you over the head with a hammer and you would swear it was a pillow to keep in good graces.

You have no self worth so you allow people to run over you. That is because you tell people how to treat you based on your actions and even being action-less in your situation.

You come across on here as creepy, stalker-ish, completely insecure and jealous. I can only imagine how you come across to women.

Here is a tip- women...ALL WOMEN....want a guy that they have to work for. Some like the nice guys who roll over at first, then they fvck them over for a guy that requires them to chase. You will never get anywhere with women long term acting the way you do. You are too caught up on one to have any scarcity and require a woman to put forth effort to being with you.

You need to take a long, hard look in the mirror and realize that if you do not change your behavior now, you will never reap the benefits that so many of us now do, thanks to changing our behavior after realizing our own shortfalls.

Well you always hear about women who dated "bad boys" for a period throughout their young adult life (she did) and then once they reach the 30-year-old mark, they don't want those guys because they realize they're just trouble and you can't settle with one. I'm not trying to come across like a spineless "nice guy", but I have heard of women who mature and no longer want those douches once they reach a certain age. At the same time, she fell in love with one just a month before we met. He screwed her over, and then we met a few weeks later. Maybe that was the final nail in the coffin for her and "bad boys"? Some may say I was a rebound. But, we have been together for 8 months now.

 

[Glassguy]

I never said "Bad boy". You missed my point (again).

 

[Initiatedindenial]

Yes, I've banged my girlfriend before

I just ask because some people say it's an issue, some people say I'm out of mind for "overanalyzing" a Like on social media

Well for once you have a point, there is a level of contradictio

I never said "Bad boy". You missed my point (again).

Don't feed the troll

 

[randalljohnson]

I never said "Bad boy". You missed my point (again).

I was simply speaking of my situation

"Grow some balls" that's the gist I get from your post

 

[Billtx49]

"Grow some balls" that's the gist I get from your post

I think you are correct in that assessment.