"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Would you accept alimony from your ex-wife?

mrRuckus

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http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/05/22/lw.manimony/


Would your accept alimony from your wife if she made more money than you and you divorced?

Would you feel that that you're a man and can "take care of yourself?"


I can take care of myself just fine, but I would have no qualms about getting alimony. Until that stupid law is fixed I'd take advantage of it because if the situation was reversed she'd feel entitled to get money from me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KarmaSutra

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I got paid for my divorce. She wanted the house and I wanted my freedom and the cash to remake my life.

I signed over the house, she cleaned out her 401k.

It didn't cost me one copper penny.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Just long enough to buy my new stripper GF some lingerie and pay for the trip to Barbados for me, her and her bi-sexual stripper friend.

Heheh,..
 
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